Me and my exgirlfriend were waiting for her new boyfriend Friday and he didn't show?

Me and Charley(my exgirlfriend) are bestfriends and have been since the day we first met and still are despite our break up and me still having strong feelings for, the only reason Charley dumped me was because she thinks I'm too old for her(I'm 15 and she's 12 going on 13). We've been split up for roughly 5 months now in which time Charley's had 3 boyfriends making this on her 4th and I've had 0 girlfriends because I haven't given myself the space to get over Charley. Even though I'm Charley's exboyfriend I hang about with her more then anyone including any boyfriend she's got at the time oddly but I don't complain as I like hanging out with her. Now Friday morning me and Charley were at school early and usually, our friends are including her new boyfriend who finally said yes after 3 days of deciding, and he said he'd meet her so me and Charley went to where he said he'd meet her and he didn't turn up. At break Charley was at this club she's joined at school so I went to hang with Steph(mine and Charley's bestfriend) and Jacob(Charley's 2nd exboyfriend after me and Steph's boyfriend) and they were where Charley's boyfriend was ment to be meeting Charley and he was there all of breaktime until the bell went. At dinner I went to meet Charley outside her lesson and her new boyfriend had said he'd meet her again in the same place and he didn't show for the whole hour and that really pissed me off as he was there when he knew Charley wasn't going to be there but when he said he'd meet her and knew she'd be there he didn't show.
What's this guy playing at and is he trying to avoid Charley?

Charley actually wanted me to come, at dinner she said if I left she'd ignore me when I wanted to put my bag in my form room, I left and put my bag there anyway and she lasted 30seconds ignoring me.

Maybe he doesn't want to meet up with his girlfriend while she's with her ex-boyfriend?
Give them some space and time to themselves.
Hang about with other people as well, being around her all the time isn't going to help you get over her.

it does sound like he is trying to avoid her, but if you really want to know just ask him, no need to speculate, just ask and then see what his response is and you'll be able to tell from that x x x x

i can't believe i was ever your age.

she's too young for you

the age kind of said it there. this is just some silly school kid relationship that will last from the start of morning break and end at the end of lunch (not literally obviously) but you get what i mean. stop paniking

Personal opinion here, but I think you guys are to young to be dating. With that aside, this new boy really just needs to go. It's obvious he doesn't want anything to do with being Charley's boyfriend.

hes not trying to avoid her. bottom line: he doesnt like her. hes just using her. shes my age, btw, and ive seen it happen a dozen times. guys like that seek attention and want girls to make fools of themselves.

so your 12 year old ex is a hootchie? wow. her parents are stupid for letting her date at all.

good lord, move on.

I think he has many girl friends and just forget Charley and what date and time he agreed upon with Charley.
Don't be pissed off , at the end Charley will know who is her best boy friend.

Wishing you wisdom and patience . Mayling

KID STUFF.........I know it means a lot to you but it is all childish stuff. It is Charleys business anyway not yours. Maybe the guy she was planning on meeting saw you with her and did not want you to be there. That meeting was for him and Charley. You need to leave the two of them alone so they can get together and get to know one another.

Isn't it about time you gave the girl some space & got over her. I have a daughter her age & son your age. I'd be horrified if a 15 year old boy was obsessing over my daughter the way you do with Charley. I would actually be concerned for her safety, you really need to talk to your parents about your obsession with this young girl. You post q's about her again & again, move on!

I wouldn't show up either with baggage like an ex boyfriend hanging around.

may be he thinks, that she likes you, and he dont want to play goosberry

He is just playing Charley, she needs to move on. Now. If a guy took three days to decide if he wanted to meet me, I would not go near him. If he stood me up once, unless he had a cast-iron alibi, I would not give him a second chance. To be fair, Charley has already managed to get herself a bit of a reputation with boys and she does play them a little, he is just getting his own back. Perhaps she has mucked around a friend of his, or maybe he has just heard on the grapevine that no one fancies Charley more than she fancies herself and he wants to teach her a lesson. Or maybe he is one of those guys who like a challenge and has heard of her reputation and figures that he will knock her down a peg or two, or, maybe, he is just a total sh1t. Either way, she should stay well away from him, even if he absolutely begs her.

kick him square in the nuts. Then mount charley like a lion