Finally met i guy i can connect with, found out he is my cousin's fiance'?

I recently met a guy at college he was just transfered to my college we struck up a friendship on the first day we met i was getting over a guy and used to sit alone when he started intruding on my space we became firm friends thereafter, then i started having feelings for him and our conversations started getting a bit more personal. Couple weeks later i was invented to supper to my cousins house i hadn't seen her in months she was getting married and she wanted me to be one of her bridesmaids this dinner was for us to meet her fiance', imagine the shock i got when i was introduced to her fiance', he turned out to be my new friend well he was just as shocked to see me, we did not pretend that we don't know each other, we mentioned that we have met before at college and were acqainted with each but didn't know any more. I have been avoiding him at college for this week i don't what to say or how to react around him, it looks as if i am always gonna be unlucky in love...

That鈥檚 not you being unlucky in love that鈥檚 someone else鈥檚 man being an @$$. I think your doin the right thing by staying away form him, because thing like that can really mess up a family. On the other hand if he comes around at school and tries to strike up some conversation, make sure you mention his fianc茅 and how happy your are to bee in their wedding, then move along. There is better out there waiting on you.

men ......can be doggs....
hummmmm...alot of them are

Sorry to say this, but let it go. He's marrying your cousin. Family first. You'll find another guy; promise.

Sorry to hear that ,, but feel lucky that you found out on time before any thing happend,(sexualy)
Did he ever mention he was engaged?
Well i feel sorry for your cousen, if he forgut to tell you, he will probably forget hes married latter on...

did he say anything inappropriate to you? Because if he did, and you saved the email, you should show it too your cousin. If you don't have any proof, don't mention anything, and just keep your relationship with him PLATONIC.

Men can be dogs.I would sit down and talk to her when you get a change to.

Well, take this loss, ma. If you go forward with this, you will end up not only hurting your cousin, but yourself as well. Besides, if he is even at that point where he wants to marry that chick,you would be nothing but a jump-off (booty call) for him and then you really end up with the bad side of the deal. My advice: There are over 2 million men in the US alone. One of them is for you. He'll come along when you are ready.

that's sad and shocking....... but did he really carry on or give u signs that he wanted to be with you?..... if then maybe u took it the worng way......

I'm surprised! A lot of people would of been dishonest and pretend not to know each other. Shows your loyal not only to yourself but to your family. Why are you avioding him? Is it because you feel betrayed by him or are you afraid your going to betray your cousin? Save yourself all the turmoil and confront him. Be friends or not and move on. Trust me you'll be okay mija.Que-serra serra. Good Luck.