I broke up with my ex-girlfreind almost 6 months ago and I still feel like I love her. We were together for...

2.5 years & our relationship was marked by constant stress& towards the end conflict.She has done much to really hurt me (though has never cheated on me),&many of my friends&family dislike her. During our relationship she was way more into me than I was her.She was very clingy and I had no space. But since we broke up she has put forth no effort to keep up any contact w/ me.She started dating someone else about 3 months after we broke up, but in the first week of dating him she cheated on him w/ me and they broke up. I just found out that they are back together & it really bothers me. But what bothers me more is that I STILL care about her after everything that has happened between us. I feel like if I could have just had my space when we were together we never would have broke up. I am meeting her tonight and I dont know what to do.I want to tell her that I still love her and that I want to be w/ her,but we are very different and it could end badly again. But I think I truly love her.

We actually ended up not meeting last night, but we rescheduled for this friday evening. This gives me a little more time which is good, cause i still dont know what to do. Any more answers will be greatly appreciated.

If you really love her, then you should tell her exactly how you feel. If it's love, then don't let anything stop you. You shouldn't worry about what people say, think, or do. The only thing that matters is you, and her if ya'll get back together. Don't leave out anything and maybe ya'll could talk about y it didn't work and compromise on ways to fix your relationship. If you both want this relationship and both try, then you should be able to make it work! Good Luck!

It doesn't seem like you even had a good relationship with this girl the entire time you dated.I think you may just want her back because she liked you so much, but you didn't seem to care while you were together. You are taking advantage of her feelings toward you and you should stop seeing her if you really care about her.
PS. being the "other guy" isn't sexy.... find someone new.

I got your answer. You don't love her.

You may think you love her, you may be TOTALLY convinced you love her..but you don't. I know this because:

-You let your friends & family's opinion effect the way you felt about her otherwise you would not have mentioned it. If you love someone, no one can change that.

-You claim she was too clingy. When you are in love you want to be near eachother..and you help your partner with their faults rather than leave them because of it. She just wanted to be near you.

-You say the whole relationship she loved you more than you loved her. Obviously, she didn't love you very much if she makes no contact but you are still upset. There was no love at all..just puppy love.

-You helped her cheat on her current boyfriend & were careless of the after effects. You don't want her to be with anyone other than you, this has nothing to do with love. But rather, envy. You aren't finding happiness so you are preventing her from having it with anyone other than you. When you love someone you make sure at all costs that they are happy with whatever they do or whoever they choose to be with.

Stop eliminating all love interests for her. What you guys have is nothing. It may have been something, but things change & you are never going to work out. You are always going to care too less and she is always going to be around you too much.

What I would advise you to do tonight is nothing. Cancel the plans, do not tell her you love her, just wish her happiness. Let her go and let your old feelings go. The best thing for you two would to be apart. Stay friends, but help eachother & most importantly, let eachother love another person. You guys will never be able to love eachother up to the capacity needed.

Goodluck!

ashummz05@yahoo.com

why would you want to be with someone that hurt you so bad? especially if she was clingy and you had no space....thats a deal breaker bro....move on....if you live in a big city...i promise theres plenty more chicks.

she is still gona be clingy and greedy with you....its not worth it. although once chicks reach about 26 yrs old....sometimes they realize how stupid they were when they were young and are then good to go.....

dont even mess with her if shes under 24 still....go find someone with less issues.