I dont kno whether i love him n he loves me too or not?

im 20 years old.when i met this guy i was just 19 .he is 30+.at first we talked on phone then we started meeting ,but i usaully go to meet him with my friends coz they never allowed me to meet him alone.after two months he said dat is he gettin involved or we both .i said im not !somehow after three months we met alone first time ,he hugged me n kissed me. it was a new experince for me n after dat i got severly ill.he apologized for dat and said dat he is responsible for this n wont do dat again but slowly n slowly it happened .he started coming near me step by step n i was stupid enough to trust him.he said dat he wana marry me.but i stopped him frm sending proposal due to some problems.but when i said him to send his parents he said dat "u r very aggressive person,i will see dat will u control ur anger for me or not then i will send proposal.whenever i need him emotionaly ,he is not there 4 me.his family matters alot for him.now i feel dat he hv no space for me in his life.

If he refuses for you to meet his parents he is probably already married, or embarassed of you because your so young. You need to find someone more your age, he's 30 yrs old and still acting like a child, this guy probably makes you feel bad about yourself and when that happens you need to get on with your life, and find someone that makes you feel good about yourself, please dont second guess your heart, you don't love him and he doesn't love you either this relationship is going nowhere, end it as soon as possible

please listen to your inner voice! i am sure its telling you the same thing as the best answer of your question! Report It

He doesn't love you nor you him. You just feel let down because he wanted you more in the beginning

Thats your concern.

FORGET ABOUT THIS GUY RIGHT NOW.....he is bad news..this guy has been playing you for a long time.. You deserve much Better...Life is waiting for you...dont get stuck in this superficial rut that you r stuck in. BREAK FREE and MOVE ON. FORGET ABOUT THIS PERSON.

I think u should let it go he isn`t ur age !!!!!!!!!!
If he hot and goodlooking to with it I think u should go with it cause it sounds likes he a good guy

As I can see you want a real relationship , and I guess you live in those countries ; where virginty is question of death & life . Then let the man knows this ! If he loves you he wouldn't hurt you , and he will bring his parents to ask your hand .

forget about the guy