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Advice on this guy please?Following on from previous Q.........?


Im seeing this guy on a casual basis. we have only kissed eachother despite him wanting to take things further.
i really like this guy. he has been chasing me for ages!
why wont he ask me out on a proper date?
we live in different areas. he only asks me if i would like to meet up if hes out in town to see if im out in his town too.
he always compliments me when we are together and always wants to be around me. he says that im a nice girl etc.
i did end my serious relationship with my fiance a few months ago.(not coz of this guy) this guy did know my ex but they were not friends so he does know about my past relationship. my ex has since moved away. could this have something to do with him not asking me out on a date?is he just giving me space?
I have asked him that we should arrange a time so that we can meet, rather than just meeting on the off chance when we are both out together(as this can sometimes be weeks) but he still just says give me a call when when your next about

He doesnt have a girlfriend and is not married.

He is 29.

Perhaps he is not keen on a long distance relationship

Hmm, this is usually my forte however it seems a bit of a funny situation! Is he shy? Has he had pervious relationships that you are aware of? It sounds to me like he is very keen and does want to see you (especially if he is asking to meet you when he's out with his friends!) he sounds as if he is giving you your space, he wants to meet you in a relaxed environment where there isn't loads of pressure to be funny, entertaining etc rather than in a pub with just you guys or in a restaurant. I would meet him in town and see how keen he is, that should give you some indication. If all else fails ask him what is going on (not in a bunny boiler sort of way) lol. I hope this helps, good luck and let me know how you get on xxxx

29? He probably has been hurt badly by a woman and he's having more than a second thought. Give him the hint I told you to, suggest something like an outing that will keep you out late, dinner, picnic, swimming etc.

It sounds to me like he figures whenever he wants to see you, you will be waiting for him to call. Don't give him the satisfaction. Find someone else. This guy figures if he plays it right you will fall in bed with him and once he gets what he wants, then he gone.

I don't think he is serious. All he wants to do is get into your pants

This guy just wants sex, not a relationship.

Your at a vunerable time, just out of a relationship, feeling insecure as your on your own for a change.
Why would he chase you for ages but then not want to take you out? He sees you as a potential notch on his bedpost.

Some guys target girls like you, your easy picking as your looking for someone to show you your still attractive, etc.

He sounds like a bit of a player, compliments come easy and fast from guys like this, he will tell you exactly what you want to hear while saying the same thing to another girl the next night.

I should know, i was the same.

just give him little time, probably there are things he want to proof right with you. so exercise patience, dont rush because you are not so cheap ok

He doesn`t want to crowd you and i think he is being polite , why don`t u ask him out then , if he says no then you can move on and forget he happened but there again he may say yes and you can come back here and tell us all how you are both doing :)
Good luck x

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