How do i tell to quit playing games with my heart?

A family friends son and i are in touch from few years.We are more then friends.I know hes going to ask me to marry him soon.But ive told him i would like to spend more time(like week together).Now when its time nearing to our week long meeting i think he feels ill turn him down if he asks me to marry him(which i will before we spend week time together)so when i called him he picked up my call said one min had me listen to conversation between him and a woman(by their conversation it appears they are strangers)maybe patient at hospital doesnt sound romantic at all she had her child with her.I know hes trying to make me jealous,maybe hes feeling nervous about meeting up turning from family friends to lovers in person.Ive always given him his space how do i let him know we need to spend time together then he can propose not otherwise without pointing out games being played.

Give him an ultimatum
Set boundaries
Visit him where he lives or have him visit you check him out inside out emotionally and mentally
Make sure you two spend atleast two holidays together
Ignore the games(after you two get physically intimate hopefully game playing will stop if thats how a man gets right)
Tell him after this week of holiday together either he proposes or you two break up and he should take your call or get back to you when you call or email and he should also call and email you regularly.
Tell him this is a two way street of relationship

first of all it sounds like the two of you barely really know each other. this is how marriages end in divorce. i suggest living with him first for a few years. devorces are such a pain.or you should tell mewhat your chinese sign and his is( birth year) and your birth month signsexample gemini, taorus pisces,etc. then maybe i can tell you what risks youll be taking. ive just been reading alot of chinese and its helped me out substantially weith my relationships.

tell him what you feel or you'll regret it.you can't get married and you don't even spend time with a person .get a clear understanding on what you both want.conversation is very important in a relationship.

walk away...
and when he ask why u are?
then u tell him u are tired of the games..
set some bountries... and if they are broken


move on... as hard as it is...

Why do YOU allow him to play games with your heart?