Is talking to people on the internet is considering cheateing on your boyfriend?

I had an account with my space and I have friends that I like to enjoy talking to and one day at the blue he just ask me for my pass word to my internet, by me being the woman that I am I have nothing to hide, so I did. He said in his eyes that is cheating. I don't think it is,its just meeting friends on line, people who enjoys convensations... Its really bad for me because I he doesn't want me to meet anyone, I don't know why, he will go typed to stupid messages to my friends, saying that I have said that and I just want to let my friends to know it wasn't me that was typing u back, it was my boyfriend. I enjoy talking to people, meeting new friends. I really don't know what else to do, please give me some reaonable advice....

some people gets insecure and that's normal... I think it's not cheating unless you talk more to him more than your boyfriend about some happy stuff... You know what, it's normal for a guy to be jealous when he see her girl talking to other person that makes her happier than talking to him..... If you know what I mean... Just tell him everything and be open at all the stuff that you and your friends talk about... Honesty is what I recommend!!!

Oh and 1 thing.... I think a good point is, he doesn't want to lose you... for example, you had a fight, you might want to talk to somebody about that and he doesnt want to let that happen coz he's afraid to lose you... Maybe he's afraid that the friend of yours in the internet will advise you and convince you to make a bad decision. Some guys fear that....

i think it depends on who it is and what ur talkin bout

Your boyfriend is not respecting your privacy. If you aren't lying about your internet chats you are not cheating. I honestly think it is time for you to get a new password and a new boyfriend. In the long run this one will only cause you pain. And you can tell him I said so.

no it is not really cheating..but, if he didn`t know then i can understand him wanting to think it is cheating...

Yes, it is cheating... cheating does not have to be physical, it can be mental too...

LOL These questions are getting funnier every day. No talking is not cheating. Talking to someone on the internet is not cheating nor a real thing anyways. People on the net can be any age,sex or whatever they want to be. If you meet with this guy and kiss make out or anything sexual that is cheating. you should change your password he is just a boyfriend. If you were engaged or married then it becomes more of a deceiving act.

nothing to hide is not the point, there is a difference between that and none of his business. he's a bf not a husband and make sure he never is because he's a jealous, control freak which is exactly the profile for an abuser. get rid of him now before he gets any worse, and if you don't tell him tough crap deal with it, i'm not doing anything wrong and i'm not going to stop to accomodate your insecurities, you give in now and he will try to run every single thing you do from here on out, its a power play, make sure you keep yours. oh and change your password like NOW, there is no reason for those people to be harrassed because you are dating a moron.

how old are you two? I guess it depends on what kind of conversation you are having with these people and why would you meet them!?

NO! no its not cheating. you have to tell him that.wow if chatting on the net is considered cheating cheating life isnt very funny anymore

break up with him..why live your life in fear when you know you did nothing wrong.. Your boyfriend is obviously insecure in the relationship...Unless you are having cybersex or doing cam shows with random guys, i would hardly consider anything else you do to be cheating.. Never let anyone limit what you do in your life, he is your boyfriend but he has no control over your life unless you let him.

it's cheatin if u have feelings for someone else other then the one your with..

Ok, run, don't walk away from this guy. Any guy who dosen't want "his women" talking to others has got a large problem that you connot fix. Drop this guy like a bad habit and never give your password out to anyone. You are still entitled to privacy even if you are in a relationship.

I won't express my opinion about your boyfriend, but it involves powertools and soft fleshy parts....

Your boyfriend seems very possesive about you and you need to give him feedback on this.
Tell him what you think about the way he treats your social contact.

You need to explain to him there are millions upon millions of people besides him with who'm you will, sooner or later, have to talk with.
And some of those might be on a daily basis.
Your co-workers, doctors, shopkeepers.
If he continues stressing over the fact that you interact with people, some of who you get to know well, he will nolonger have an relation with you. He would simply herding you. Guarding you.

That would mean he wouldn't love you, he would simply posses you.

The internet issue is not important here. The core is his view of you. You are not his possession, you are the person who he should share his fears, his thoughts, his dreams with.

He needs to really evaluate his feelings for you.

talking on the internet to people is not cheating unless you are flirting or asking them out... but he might not like that cause hes afraid to lose you but if he keeps acting like that i say you should leave him cause he sounds like control freak and you dont want a guy like that... but you should talk to him about it and ask why he does that and doesnt want you to talk to other people

ask your boyfriend what are the things you've written or your friends have written that he finds unfaithful?.....maybe an "I love you" note from a friend?......communication is very helpful in a relationship......so go and talk to your boyfriend about it....explain to him why you enjoy this activity...ask him his reasons why he forbids you......no shouting match please....no name calling either......just honest, loving, open-minded communication....

Absolutely not. but could make him/her suspicious. This could lead to unhappy times as trust may diminish resulting in arguments of jealousy. This will also show that this person does care for you but in an unhealthy manner.

lets face it girls get IMed all the time with silly pick up lines and horny pervs, i suggest you do not try to hide this and let him see your responses if you're not doing anything except talking if you have other motives than what can i say it not cheating but why would you care if your looking for someone new?

No dear that is not cheating at all, even if he did not know it. And for him to ask for your password to see who you were talking to is disrepectful to you.
Lots of people have internet friends that they talk to, even married folk.
Your boyfriend need to take a chill pill and chill out there is no harm in what you are doing dear.
If you like you may im I if you would like talking to older guy.

I do not see it as cheating and my wife does not see it as cheating. She knows I have female friends I talk to who are many miles away and some are on the other side of the world. Why does she not think it is cheating. I did not find them, they found me and became my friends and each time one gets on line with me, they know I am married but they do like to talk to me and I like to talk to them when we get a chance. My wife knows I am cheating in one way. I ask my friends about where they live instead of reading a book about it. I learn with out a book! That is how I cheat. Your boyfriend must think that he is the worst person in the world. Why would he not want you just to type to someone on a computer. Does he think they are better than he is! He must get use to it. Computers are putting the world together and we all share!

I think he is no kind of boyfriend to tell u to do something like that, he dosen't control u,u r u and he can't change that unless u let him.u are a beautiful person that no one can change if u want to talk to some one else online then lil'devil u do so ashley's word

don't care

not cheating at all.... you can talk to me anytime

OKAY, HERE'S THE THING, TRUST IS A MAJOR PART OF A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. THIS IS AT THE TOP OF EVERY COUPLE'S LIST. IF HE IS UPSET OVER PEOPLE YOU ARE NOT PHYSICALLY HAVING A CONVERSATION WITH, HOW IS HE GOING TO REACT TO THE ONES YOU DO, AND, IF YOU GUYS GET MARRIED, IT WILL BECOME WORSE? TALKING ON THE INTERNET IS COMPLETELY HARMLESS, IN FACT, IT KEEPS THE SPICE IN THE RELATIONSHIP. HE DEFINITELY NEEDS TO WORK ON HIS TRUST ISSUES. THIS IS NOT CHEATING AT ALL. I WOULDN'T CARE IF MY HUSBAND WAS TALKING TO OTHER PEOPLE ON THE NET. IF IT IS THAT EASY FOR HIM TO LEAVE JUST BY CHATTING, I DIDN'T HAVE HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE, YOUR BOYFRIEND SHOULD NOT CARE WHERE YOU WORK UP YOUR APPETITE, AS LONG AS YOU EAT @ HOME. THIS IS REALLY SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT IF YOU PLAN TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH THIS PERSON BECAUSE WHATEVER PROBLEMS HE HAS NOW NO MATTER HOW SMALL, IT WILL REALLY SHOW ONCE YOU SAY "I DO". I HOPE THINGS WORK OUT.