Me and my girlfriend/ fiance of two years just split up after a New Year's fight...?

we were living togethr...
I'm out of the house and this is what she tells me she wants (copied from email)


"Today is January 8, 2007
Today we cut loose all the baggage of the past and start new,
There is no security there are no guarantees, there is no future in mind
Today I met you. Although I know things about you, as you know things about me, neither one of us know if the other is someone we truly want to be with,
We are willing to meet anew (with who we are today) and see if we see anything in each other that is worth pursuing.
There is space for introspection who are you, who am I, what do we want out of life individually
There are no rules, just two people meeting again
There are no fights or things to harp on from the past as there is no past, it's a clean start that won't necessarily lead anywhere.
Our communications are fresh,


What the hell is this about and what exactly does it mean? Is this a slow breakup or some kind of sick game? What do you do?

not only is she unsure about spending her life with you, she does not feel that same excitement and electricity she used to, which may be why she questions spending her life with you. there may also be another man and she is using this as a way to decide between you 2, but i doubt that is the case here. here is what you do. play hard to get now. tell her you are not into games, and you just want to be friends. don't call her, don't answer when she calls...for awhile. act like you are cool and happy and unconcerned. but tell her to her face. go see her and tell her you don't play games, give her a smile and say "friends?", kiss her on the cheek, tell her to call you sometime and walk away, head held high. you MUST show confidence through out this, and air of not being concerned. don't be cocky or mean, don't even mention the relationship or ask "WHY?" or anything else. a confident and secure needs to say very little and questions nothing. she will be begging you to take her back very, very quickly. trust me on this. play this game the way i've outlined, and you will win. but is the prize worth the game?