What will i do now????

my friends have stopped talking to me now since i started to date this girl, they were the ones i could turn to for advice but they obviously are completly homophobic and so i decided that if they couldnt accept it then thats their choice but now that girl i have been seeing is being so distant with me and i am so sad about it because i really do think that i may love her (well i dont know really, i have NEVER ever felt this way about anybody before) well anyway she used to text me all the time and always wanted to meet up and i did and now that i want to she seems so cold and like distant and i thought it was just because of christmas and so i gave her space but then i text her and she text me back but then when i asked her about meeting up she was like oh maybe we'll meet up soon, am i just being weird about this maybe too possesive or is she losing interest, i really feel regretful about telling my friends now I've lost it all now

aw, sweetie. i'm so sorry you're in such a hard place. i'm really proud of you for telling your friends because even if it doesn't work out with this girl you've been dating, at least you were upfront with your friends about who you are. be true to yourself. you will find there are many people who will stand by you and be supportive friends, no matter who you choose to date. you may also find that over time you change your friends' minds. they may be homophobic because they haven't had any significant friendships with anyone who was openly gay. stand your ground. be yourself. and know that you are not alone. the process of coming out is never completely smooth, but it does get better and this is one of those situations where honesty is the best policy. it's your friends who are losing out on the opportunity to grow as human beings.

about your friends...if they can't accept you for who you are then they are not your friends. you'll be better off making new friends who can accept you. you don't need people like that. don't regret for telling your friends because now you know what kind of friends they are.

about that girl...in a gay world it is quite difficult to find someone who wants to have relation. i am not saying that it is impossible but mostly they just want to have fun. but there's also a possibility that she think maybe you made the move to soon to fast and it scared her. i am sure she has her own reason why did she behave like that and you;ll never know unless you can talk about it with her. try to put it this way...if she meant to be with you then she'll be with you no matter what. but if not then move on with your life and try to forget her. you'll find someone who deserve you. don't be so hard on yourself, it's not the end of the world so cheer up...:-)

You consider these people friends???