Should I totally forget my ex-boyfriend?

I dated this guy for a month last year. I met him at a 4-H club that only has meetings every two weeks. I broke up with him because I was the only one calling in the relationship & we never saw eachother between meetings. We only broke up for that reason which is why we still like eachother every time when we see eachother again. After we broke up, I didn't see him. We were supposed to still be friends so I called him occasionally to see if he was okay. But I got mad when he'd say he'd call me back but he never did so I gave him some space. The next year he didn't show up to a lot of meetings. Then a few weeks ago, I went to a camp for the weekend and he was there. He kept kissing&hugging me. After the weekend was over, I was still the only person that would call and when I told him how I felt about it he said he'd change. 3 weeks later, I haven't called him therefore we haven't talked. I know this Monday (the new 4-H meeting), he'll 'miss' me again. Should I just forget him?

You know the answer to that question, you are just looking for validation of your feelings.

So, to answer your question...yes, forget him.

He obviously doesn't respect you or your feelings enough to even make an effort in this "relationship."

totally

Yes, move on.

yes forget him. it looks like he is just using you, not to be mean. this guy sounds like a jerk. forget him. if he was a better boyfriend, he would be the one calling you before you even picked up your phone. =]

yeah hes probably ******* around and wants to get both of ya in bed

Just forget him and move on. He's just using you.

Oh yeah, you should forget him.

What's the bet though that as soon as you let him know you're not interested, he'll ring you.

Just ignore the guy. You are obviously a very warm person who keeps in touch and you deserve someone the same.

Don't accept less than the best. This guy is definitely not in your league. Think of it this way, would you let family or friends get away with not calling you back when they say they will. No way.

Just keep on truckin', that prince is just round the corner, so give this inconsiderate toad a miss.

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dont waste your time on someone who wont waste their time on you.
your like his bootycallll
dont let him be able to come back to you whenever he needs a little "lovin" in his life.
it sorts makes u seem easy

it doesn't sound like he's contributing to the relationship you're hoping to have with him, so just forget him. there is a man out there that will provide you almost everything that you ask of him. don't waste your love on your ex-boyfriend. give it to someone who will reciprocate it.

Don't compromise yourself for him.

He's useless, truth is he doesn't want you, becuase if he did he'd call. Delete his number and all contact details, then you don't need to deal with willpower issues when you are feeling like giving in.
Because it IS giving in, and you know it.
And what are you giving in to? A selfish xxxx.

A selfish xxxx who is taking you for a ride, because he can.
He is only friends with you when you put effort in, otherwise he is being nasty to you by not calling, knowing he's said he'll call you. To paraphrase from a book:
"If he tells you he'll call and doesn't... it means he;s okay with disappointing you."*
, and you don't need a nasty person like that.
So he is not your friend, since friends treat you with respect and like to make you feel good not bad.
So drop the freak.

just how many times do you have to be hit over the head with a stick before you get the hint.
forget him and find someone around town you will see more often

If i have heared you clearly, you guys have met in 4-h meetings only and from there you have tried to keep closer by using the phone, so my questionis, did you try to arrange a regular meetings with him, just the two of you. if you can see some of the peolple don't like the distance communication so if you can draw him closer and let him visit you and you visit him i think you will get to know him and if there is something behind, you will soon find out. so rather visit him and invite him over sometimes and see if he will be the same cos what i can hear is that you guys are not yet separated as you are still sharing what lovers shares, when you meet you are still kissing and hugging just as before but you call him ex. just try a different option and see if it will not work for you.

He's a jerk!!! My ex-bf behaves he same way but i kinda contributed 2 it i didn't want my mom 2 know and he jus stopped. Let go, b frenz but don't call r if u jus' want 2 hear his voice try calling twice a month r more until u can stop. Try it , it will be hard 4 u ... it seems u have feelings 4 him still.