This dude at school???

Okay there's this new kid at my school, and it seems he wants to be my friend. Cool, I'm honored by that, but he's kinda freaking me out a little, he seems depressed, and kinda odd, the thing that really got me, I just met the dude, and he's asking me some personal question, 10 minutes into meeting him, he asks me, stuff like where do I live. I have a very odd vibe around him, and he seems to follow me, I'm to nice, to tell him that I really need my space, what should I do?

I wouldn't give any personal information just yet, you just met the guy. There's a lot of psychos out there nowadays. Be careful. Do any of your friends know this guy? It's cool that he wants to be your friend but if he presses for personal information and you get an odd vibe, LISTEN to what your radar is telling you! Just be careful and tell a friend or someone close about this just in case. But remember also that he might feel like the new guy and all he needs and wants is a friend to not feel left out as well. Either way tell someone.

Dude, he's gay

whack him and hide the body

lol sounds like his jus tryna get to know u.. or if not.. then ... hes prolly gay or bi

wow freaky. just keep your distance from him and i think youll be fine.

Run him over with a bus. Or in all reality if your too nice to tell him, your gonna just be stuck with him acting like that. Its something I would do. So just get used to it probably

**Spicy Latina- Yeah cause white kids are the only ones that shoot people, too bad on the news all I hear is how there is another 14 dead black people from them shooting each other. Shouldnt you be running from Hurricane Dean and not answering questions

tell him to nicely he shoud mot ask these guestions yet

He may just be trying to make a friend since he is feeling wierd about being new. Try to say "I have tp get to gym but can meet up with you tomorrow after lunch" and mabe he will get the hint. Be sensitive and understanding to him without making yourself crazy.

Avoid the heck outta him. If he confronts you then tell him, I barely know you.

lol the answer above me hehe he could be gay. just tell him politely (veryyyy politely) to not follow you around as much. if he still does just yell at him and scare him away. thats what i did when this guy was kinda stalking me. good luck!

i has the same problem happen when i was in high school only i was the new person and need a friend so i started hanging out with the first person. well this guy turned out to be a complete wierdo he would invite me over to his house offer me food and then tell me about how hes not a charity. and that i should have him over to my house but this guy was weird like super weird i just avoided him its his problem not yours dont let him ruin your life.

well kind of step away if that does not work i would not no what to do myself?

tell him how uncomfortable you are with him following you and tell him that although you appreciate his "friendship" that personal questions are a little too soon to be answered and then just begin to avoid him.

Just try to keep your distance. a bit

FFS. Maybe he is just trying to make an effort to know someone and with everyone calling him gay (Posters here for example) he is getting desperate for a friend. Maybe where he went before, people where more open.

he's alone and needs a friend, and he is hoping he has found one. Talk to him and explain what you are feeling. If he's new to the area, he could be clinging a little too hard, but that's expected in his situation. Be cool and try to understand. Try not to show the immaturity that has surfaced in these anwers, some are down right mean.....

Better to be his friend than his enemy when goes nuts one day at school with a nine.

its obzious that he wunt to make frends fast and wunts to be able to have sum1 bak him up in a fight ciz popular kids always bully the new kid were im at and probly were hes from too so thats always a thought be nice im insane i dont need room as long as im able to yell out woohoo or hit on chiks im good

He might just be trying to step out and fit in...maybe you could try to help him...Maybe someone told him ,"Ask questions....people like to talk about themselves." I can't tell you how many times I've heard that about "meeting people", maybe he is just REALLY BAD at it....you could make such a difference, and change the entire course of this persons life.....for the better....or worse.

I have lived through changing schools myself.

There is nothing wrong with you saying that something is personal but perhaps he just doesnt know how to be superficial.
It could help when you need space to give him clues of what he could go do since you know your way around.
Of course you should listen to your vibe and myself I would even advise you to speak with him about your vibe. Cause sometimes the voices in our heads are our own and yes he could be gay or just an unknown to you. Talk - if you gain a friend that is safe - that could be valuable.
Who is to know? Years down the road he might be offering you a fine job.

It sounds like this guy isn't good at making friends! When things like this happen to me, what I do is introduce the person to as many people as I can at school. This takes a lot of the pressure off of me, and then if I think the person is weird and creepy, I don't feel guilty about leaving them alone later. It's hard to help someone with problems like depression if you aren't a very good friend, but if that looks like a big issue, you might want to tell him to talk to a counselor about the depression.