Do people think she is wanting me back? Honest answers please!?

We broke up at the start of the year, her choice & didn't see each other for a while.

We are meeting up fairly reguarly. She is giving out mixed signals. Part of me thinks she is wanting me back, part of me thinks she might just want to be friends.

What do people think?

Pointers to her being interested:

1) After a couple of quick meet ups for a drink we are now doing "date" stuff together, dinner at mine, we went to see her favourite band
2) We laugh a lot, like we always used to
3) We talk non-stop & like the same stuff, like we always used to
4) I catch her looking at me. It happened the last time we went out, she glances almost longingly at me, smiles then goes a bit shy after we keep eye contact

But on the opposite:

1) Up until this wk it was me that called her. I gave her space and she has now called me but was a bit weird on the phone, non-talkative!
2) She pulled away slightly when we got sat up close, leaning into each other etc

What do people think?

She called me in the week which I think is a good thing as it is not me doing all the chasing. I was actually out and returned her call the next day but she was a bit un-talkative! Weird!?

We are meeting again later this wk for drinks. Thoughts??

i have one thought. pay attention, now. it's a big one....




ASK HER.

tricky one

I think she wants you back really, but for some reason she's scared of getting close to you again.. She definately wants you back, i think you should ask her about it :)

yup, she misses u loads. looking at u longingly means she wishes stuff was normal again between you two i guess and u caught her (good on you!) and then she shy thinking what if he doesnt want me back and OHNO! he caught me AGIAN! eeek...lol. The reason for being weird was coz u dint call her back immediately and she might think u were having a good time somewhere and was too busy as in maybe with another girl! so she being all huffy puffy thinking 'what were u up to when i rang? so busy were u huh? doing what? with who?' kinda attitude. so definitely she wants u back but are u flirting with some1 making her think u dont want her no more? are u put off her coz she hurt u bad? she scared u not want her now and just wanna be friends. i think she worried u got your eyes on some1 else and she lost u forever. do u want her back? do u miss her? if so, go get her man! what u waiting for?

u already have a break-up with her. so i think it will be better not to think about her that way anymore. she refused a relation with u and now u r again confused if she's in love with u! no, i think u've already thought enough of her. it seems to me she's very unstable in her mind. i dont think thats a good characteristic to build up a relationship.

Why are you asking on here what people think..its what your girlfriend thinks that can put your mind at rest...if you are going out with her this week ask her what she wants from you...if its a relationship fine if its just a friendship ask her to tell you so you can get on with your life either with her or without her..if she says she doesn't know ask her not to contact you again AT ALL until she knows what she wants and tell her she should decide soon because you are not going to hang around forever..hope this helps

Sounds like she is waiting for you to make the first move, even though it was her who broke it up in the first place, and should be her to let you know she has changed her mind, but that women for you, (I am a woman, haha).
I would just go with my feelings, and on the other hand, things seem to working beautifully as they are, so why not just leave it at that for the time being and see what happens. The relationship you have with her at the moment is betterr than having nothing.
I am sorry to say this, but I also got vibes that when she broke it off, she had someome else in mind, and that has not worked out, so she is doing her number on you again....
Good Luck

it looks like to me that u too fancy each other in a friendly way more then loving way, looking, glancing, laughing all the things u mentioned don't lead to a loving relationship...

the reason is, u 2 started to experience all these after u broke-up, it means u too feel happy with each ootherer when there r no links between u two..

th best thing is to stay friends and no more then that, because u broke-up once then don't do it again and regret + u will loss the fun u 2 having a friends NOT partners!!!!!!!!

maybe she wants you back or she wants to be a good friend to you.If you feel you're in love with her again,you can ask her and become a couple again....

tricky... sounds like she may want you back.... but... for how long?? she's already ended it once, whats to say when she's back with you she wont end it again, after all, whats changed that made her so unhappy she had to leave in the first place?

Be carefull.... she may just be getting back with you for the wrong reasons.