Should I be friends with her?

This girl I barley know, am emotionally attached to. The time we spent together was so strong, I had a connection I've never experienced before. She has been driving me insane when she doesn鈥檛 return my phone calls. I fianly got her to call me back and

She apologized for not calling, She was interested in me and still is. but since are first meeting, she met another guy, even though she was still interested in me, she was hoping it would not work out, but it has worked. She said she unfortunately has a boyfriend right now, now she wants to be friends hang out, have lunch, dance, she doesn鈥檛 want to miss the opportunity again, and really thinks I鈥檓 a cool guy and wants to hang out and has told her boyfriend about and that she wants to be friends., And would love to spend time with me. She also invited me to hang out with her and her friends every Tuesday night. What do I do now? I almost think that I should give her space, maybe a month, and then play hard to get, but then again

ON another NOTE: if I hang out with her friends it requires me to take vacation off from work. Wouldn't I be puttng myself out there, since its odvious I took time off for her.

Hmmmmm... She treats you like you are a brother to her.
She thinks you are either really desperate or gay.

Just find another girl and then maybe take her back later on.

i think you need to find someone else and back off. she will want you more it you want to do your own thing.

oh sweetie, playing games does no good, believe me...if you want a shot with this girl, do hang out with her, but at your pace, whenever you feel ready/comfortable. don't you think hanging out with her as friends is better than not seeing her at all? well, let me know how it goes...take care.

Move on your obsessing poor dear. There are lots of fish in the sea.

wow

go for it, be friends with her, don't let it bother you when she talkes about her boyfriend, be nice and cool and fun to hang out with and then when she says she wants more make sure she left him first, the rest will take care of itself.

I think you should be friends, plus you can move closer once and if the break up, plus you might make an awesome friend

why not?

First It Depends On What Her Boyfriend Say About U Two Being Friends,,,I THink You Should Be Friends, Some Friends Are There When You Need Them In The Times Of Your Need When You Don't Have Anyone To Talk Tooo.....Hope I Was A Little Help To You.....

go with her on tuesday if she acts interested go for it and make a move if she tags along more with her friends and stays away from you for the most part back off and give her some space let her decide who she wants

absolutly,
it cant hurt to be friends
as long as you do relize this could be a big f**king train wreck in the long run or it could be one of the strongest friendships you have be careful keep youre eyes OPEN

It doesn't sound like she really knows what she wants. You said you don't really know her all that well. I say hang out with the friends for a couple weeks. Really try to be
objective on whether or not you two would be compatible. If after a couple weeks it looks like things are not going to change, then go your own way. Who knows, maybe you'll find one of her friends more compatible? Good luck

U should backoff
You might find out that you don't like this chick as much as you think you do. Or you beging this attached will sound a litte starkerish. Back off but remain friends incase things do work out.

What do you mean she was hoping things didn't work out with the other guy?? If she really was interested in you she should have been trying to work things out with you, dear! As I see it, you could only hope to be friends with her. Please giver her space...and if you want to date, find another girl! I'm sure there are several of them out there waiting to be noticed by you!! Good luck!

tell her how you feel and explain to her that u dont know weather you guys should hang out....and if its hard for her to be 2 ft in front of you but not have her dont stress yourself with hanging out with her so much, take a break from her and look for other girls that are single and want to be more then just friends. shes obviously likes you as a friend and want her in her life and has fun but maybe you arent the type of guy that she wants to date or does date. but dont let her lead you on.

Sounds like the Cake and eat it to story.Also sounds like she already has you torn up over her,And if you let her run the show her way ,Than it will only get worse. Flip the script on her. Hang out with her when you want ,Call her when you get time.See she knows she has you already,So make her want what she can't have. It goes both ways.

Honey child, you are begging me to go over there and smack you upside your head!!! This is the information we've gathered about her directly from you: you barely know her, but you do know that she has a bf who she was hoping "it would not work out" which means that she's stringing him along and using him for something, and she said that "unfortunately" she has a bf, like, did this guy hold a gun to her head and force her to be his gf. If she wanted to be your gf she would dump this guy she's "unfortunately" with and go out with you. But no, she wants to keep you around, teasing you with whatever you're interested in her for, so you can sit there with her group silently thinking lame stuff like "i love it when she tosses her hair like that" or "her smile melts my heart" to the amusement of her and her friends. Put aside any postive attributes you made up for this girl you barely know and look at the cold facts of her actions, she does not treat people very well and is a user, isn't she?

yes,not bad to be her friend...i think she loves you a little bit...