Another 'so i met this girl' question?

i met this girl at a kick back, we made some physical contact and later on we went to the other room and she was debating whether she should take my virginity. she did, but i messed up a little and we cuddled a lot and i apologized which i later found out was extremely lame. im not sure if shes still interested in my cuz she always has short responses to any message i send her and she seems really hesitant which is unlike her. she seems to like outgoing guys and im not the most outgoing. but when we went to a party i saw her once and she kind of grabbed my hand when she was walking behind me and i grabbed back. should i pursue? or just let it go, cuz im pretty into her, but i dont wanna be a clingy virgin.

You do need to work on being more confident - even if you begin by just pretending to be.
It does appear that she likes you and her taking your virginity is not something she will forget in a hurry.
So you have a connection in place, I say yes, pursue her.

In the interim I have found you some websites on improving confidence:
http://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/Guide_to_Su...

http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/impro...

http://www.twu.edu/o-sl/Counseling/SelfH...

http://ezinearticles.com/?Improving-Your...

Thank you and good luck with your pursuit. Report It

work on being more outgoing and being more sure of yourself. She's probably being hesitant because she is into different types of guys. Good luck!