Could not be more pissed off and disapointed in my mom....?

my mom is a sl*t! we just had a roommate move in about 1 month ago *Maybe a month* and guess what! She is in her bedroom having sex with him RIGHT NOW! I was laying on the couch thinking right outside of her room and i saw him walk through the living room *i guess he didn't see me* dumb a$$* and he went into my moms room and i heard a paper bag unfold *probley condoms* and then i came in my room because i was crying so much, then i went up to my moms door and i heard them! DOING IT!!! OMG!!!! Help me! im seriously flipping out, im in tears, my mom said AND PROMISED that she wouldn't have a relashionship with him! SHE LIED! i don't think i can trust her anymore. I'm crying so much i can't see the screen, please respond a.s.a.p! Thanks in advance...

P.S: I am 14 and my mom is 30 and she promised not to have sex with this one! He is 32 but she JUST met him! He lives with us *our roommate* how can i face them again?

this has happened before i caught her screw*ng some random guy and she NEVER apologized she just said that it wasn't my business...

This has nothing to do with you. Unfortunately, you have no control over your mom's life. She is not right in acting this way, however, there is nothing you can do about this. Don't worry about facing them! Your mom should worry about facing you! Don't bother confronting her on this, as this will only hurt you. Try and focus on something more positive and set goals for yourself. In just a few short years you will be out on your own. Focus on school and a good education, and then you will be calling the shots for yourself.

let them be and ignore them as we know it is wrong to and she should have known better just be strong and hopefully she can see what she has done to hurt you - if you need someone to talk to, i am here anytime

Can you go live with your father?

Your mother's first priority should be you, not her sex life.

Go see your school principal he/she will tell you what you what your options are.

calm down. your mom will know shes done wrong and apologise if she knows right which im sure she does, stll that doesnt make it right dont let it off easy, tell her how upset you are with her

Your mother is not behaving as a mother should - she is immature but, she is also a young woman who, if she hadn't become pregnant when 15(?) might, now, be the married mother of two young children. One thing tho' - she didn't call Planned Parenthood to arrange for an abortion.
I can't imagine how upset you must be as this isn't the, only, man. You need to calm down as well as you can and know that you haven't done anything wrong so you're not the person who should worry about how to face them again - they are the ones who should be afraid to meet your accusing eyes.
Okay - now for the "action plan". You know how to express yourself when typing a question, with comments, as this one is so .. first thing: are you close to your grandmother or to an aunt in your family? Close enough that they would be pleased for you to stay with them for a few days?
There's, also, the possibility of staying with a friend's family, perhaps? I'm asking you to get your feelers out for someone you would like to be with for a short "visit" - it is summertime, after all, so this could be part of your summer vacation.
Once you feel on comfortable ground, in this area, accept an invitation and, if they'll have you for longer then, you stay up to a week.- tell the person you and your mother need a short break from each other. Meanwhile, you will compose a short letter to your mother in which you are going to be hard-nosed. Perhaps, something which includes, 'I love you mom but am disappointed in you for the many times you lied to me and for allowing me, at age 14, to witness my mother being nothing more than a cheap trick making herself available for sex as if it's her profession.
Seeing you do this has caused me to lose my respect for you so, if you don't mind, I'd rather live with somone else. I shouldn't be living with someone who has no interest in teaching me moral values so I can grow up prepared to face the world and not become a teen pregnancy statistic. I need to live with someone who, -> cares enough about me to do this <- and will be a good example to me. If you want me to come back at the end of the week, this tenant has to be out and the next roomate will be a woman or there will be no roommate. If you rent to a man, I'll to have someone bring me to court to appoint a guardian for me until you grow up.
Tell her to sign it and date it plus write above her signature: This is a binding contract between me and my daughter:___ you keep it somewhere safe. I'm sure you don't want to do something like this but you, really, need not go anywhere if the man leaves. Think about this as a working tool to give your mom a wake-up call,