I don't know how I felt in love with my roomate!?

i am a foreigner...I just got out off a really bad reltionship where I had to get a roombecause my ex wanted me out !I got out , got on roomate.com and found this place!I moved in and realized I had a roomate which the landlord forgot to mention.So I met my roomate , he is nice , kind of weird , deosn't get out much but like staying in his room all the time.My last relationship was a birracial relationship and after that I swore not to ever be opened to those kind of relationshp.But my roomie is open, told me that he doesn't care about ethnicity .We do spend time together , like any other roomate! watch movies in his room , talk about evreything .But i ve realized , within the last 2 weeks that I have more feeling for him than just firends.And I can't because he is not from my race , i am not his type(dn't know) and i can't date i m still suffering from my old relation but i m hurting evrytime i get near him...i decided to look for a new room nd nt to tell him nothing , just leave!

you might get hurt even more if you dont even give the relationship a try. and leaving without telling him is the worst. explain to him why you are scared.

You need to step back from this man, he's obviously just a rebound. You aren't in love with him, you've transferred your feelings from the old man to this man. Stop spending so much time with him and if you do find that the feelings are still there, then ask him if he feels the same.

Good luck.