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This guy kissed me when he loves my best friend, than threatened me not to tell anyone. Help?


I'm 14. Me and my friend have been good friends for years now, and she recently introduced me to this 16 year old guy at school who she met a few months ago. She's been friends with him for awhile. He has feelings for her, but he hasn't asked her out yet, and he's told her he loves her, but she hasn't told him she loved him back. When I met this guy, he was very nice to me, and we talked. After we met, we chatted online. It got to the point where I found him likable and trustable, and finally I invited him over. I only invited him over because he seemed so nice. And I felt lonely. So finally after inviting him over to my house, we were watching youtube videos in my room and laughing and then he said I looked nervous. So he started massaging my back. Then he pretty much walked me over to my bed and started kissing me. I moved away and told him to stop. Then I asked him if he kissed me because he loved me. He said no. He said if I told anyone, he'd spread rumors about me around school.

Afterwards, I told my friend because I thought she should know. She misunderstood and thought I was trying to steal him away from her. Her mom called me on the phone and yelled at me. And my friend said she's not talking to me anymore, and refuses to be my friend.

If you knew he loved your friend, what possessed you to invite him over & be in your room?...if you just saw him as a friend why were you nervous?

You sound like you are denying your responsibility in this situation. Why after 1 kiss would you ask someone if they love you? That's so unrealistic. I think you had a fantasy about him & are using feeling lonely as an excuse. I'm sure you could've called your friend or another one to keep you company.

You were teasing him & giving him mixed signals. When you asked if he kissed you because he loved you...he realized what a mistake he had made.

I would have never told her. & let it alone. You need to look at what made you tell your friend...he was in YOUR house.

All you can do is call your friend tell her you were very wrong & plead for her forgiveness.

If I may...I suggest you get into counseling to learn how to be in relationships & deal with friendships.

Good luck to you.

stop seem him and stop you are back stabbed our friend friend dont doing that to each other would you what someone else to that to you what goes around comes to you are start a fight and the guy is mess up our friendship between you and her that is not right telll the guy to leave you alone you are going to get bite by a snake in the end

You should tell your parents. Having another adult verbally abuse you shows that her mother doesn't know boundaries.

You did the right thing. You told your friend. You then found out she wasn't really YOUR friend because she decided to assume you lied or were betraying her than assume the dork that kissed you did. Just stay away from him and her.

Oh My Gawd .
He's probably SCARED that you might tell someone who might tell your GOOD friend . & If your GOOD friend knew, well, that'll jeprodize his chance at GETTING with her .
Ugh . You NEED to talk to that GUY, someway or another . He seems like the aggressive type that WILL stop at NOTHING to get what he wants .
Hope this works out, even though, this probably is the WORST advice anyone can give . Sorry . ;) 鈾?/div>

  • 3 weeks ago
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I'm sorry this is a horrible situation, have u tried talking to your friend again, or explained the situation to other people? May, on the other hand, you should just drop the whole situation. If that was me I would have never told anyone about wht happened/

sounds like this guy is a real jerk and a stupid liar. If your friend doesn't trust you enough to believe what you told her then maybe she isn't a true friend. If your friend doesn't want to work it out and you tried then i wouldn't worry about it because its your friends fault not yours.

You need to just stay away from them hang out with other people, if he tries to spread rumors about you just dont defend yourself, then say he was kissing you against your will and he was spreading these rumors, because you told someone, he will look like such a sleeze

FIRST OF ALL RETARDED AND ALIE SO TELL HIM FUNK OF AND TELL SOME TO TELL EVERY BODY AND LIE AND TELL HIM THAT U TOLD A GOOD FRIEND THAT ACCIDENTALL Y SPILLED THE SECRET!

i think you should try to talk to your friend and try to explain her, what really has happened.

long story.

tell the boy stay away from me or im gonna tell my parents!

TELLL UR FRIEND BEFORE YOU LOSE THEM BOTH!

so... what's the question?

omg...! lets see... your friends not talking to you, your being threatened, and you cant turn to anyone? i say tell someone you really trust, like a best friend, or a mom. and if your friend won't even let you explain what really happened than she might not be a true friend. And about the boy... forget him. Obviously he's not nice, and i think you should just move on. This is something that is soon to be forgotten, so dont worry. I'm sure you have more, trustworthy friends to hang out with, and plenty more boys to kiss lol
xoxo

Well he is a jerk to start. 2cd you should not of been alone with him in a situastion you can not handel. He was taking advantage of you. 3rd her Mom is wrong to get on you, she probable heard a entirly differnt story from the boy. BUT she should be adult enough to realize he is covering up his bad behavior. You did not tie him up in your room, he was there voluntarly. He is telling lies and Im sure it will coontinue untill he pulls it again with another girl and gets caught red handed. He wants his cake and eat it too. Donrt put yourself in situations like this, think of your actions carefully. Sorry but its a fact of life. *mamatx

wow that's lame middle school drama
if she was your real friend she wouldn't stop being friends with you because of a boy!
and plus this guy sounds like a douche.
he's sixteen at least a sophomore
no offense but he's probably a loser in his grade and can't get any from 10th grade or 9th grade so he has to go for 8th graders
tell your friend to get over him
he's just playing her

but you should just talk to her and apologize for what happened. it was a little wrong to invite him over. you wouldn't have done that if you didn't like him just a little bit. but i think you and your friends relationship shouldn't end because a stupid boy who's a loser!

ok my best friend did that to me and it was horrible she told me she hated him and what do you know the next day she was going out with him!!! i was so mad i was not her friend!! ok, then he called me he goes " madison is getting me mad she won't talk to me i am going to brake up with her" of course i was like ok bc we knew each other since preschool!! so give me a brake for being happy!! so then he told me he liked me way way way more than madison!!! :) and then he said if you tell anyone i will spreads rumors about you! so i called madison and i told her i was sorry and she did not listen so i e-mailed her and i told her sorry and we became friends! and then mikey broke up with her.... and she found out what he said!!! but anyways all you need to do is call her mom and tell her that she misunderstud! and if that does not work text her or e-mail! thats all i got hope everything works out!

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