I really need advice?

a couple of hours ago my mom came home drunk..she started yelling saying she was dying even though i knew she was just smashed really bad..my stepdad told me and my brother to go into a different room..i overheard my mom say that she doesnt have anybody left..and that she hated me and she blames her life on me and wishes i would have never been born..she said she i remind her of my dad (whom i have never met) and i was cryin my eyes out so bad..i prayed and everything and i know God will help me..but i just need some advice..my lil brother was cryin too so i took him into my room to watch a movie and my mom is passed out on the couch behind me and i just need someone to talk too

im 17 so im still a minor..so what do you think i should do..am i old enough to just leave and move in with a family member?

I am so sorry to hear about your situation. Since you are 17, I would try to sit down with your mom and step dad an talk this out with them. God will help you and give you the peace you need to go through this. You have to trust Him, because he will always come through. Also if they do not want to talk with you, then I would recommend that you go to your pastor or call him on the phone and chat with him, that will help too. I will pray for you that God will help you and give you the strength to go on in your life.

I'm sorry to here your situation. I knew a friend who had a similar problem. The situation might seem a bit depressing but I don't think moving out is the answer.
I suggest you have a meeting with your school guidance councilor/ pastor and let them know how you feel. It is important that you also remember that your little brother needs you and it is important to give him support right now.
Also I would recommend a family intervention (ie. stepfather, uncle, aunt, grandmother etc) where you meet and discuss the issues. You can also find out the number for your local AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) and request some info for your mom. Life can be stressful for parents and you also need to support her as well. Hope everything gets better

awww its okay, my dad was high a few times and we had 2 call the cops b4, but wat my mom taught me was that i was not responsible 4 my dads actions, and u hav 2 relize that she luvs u but rite now she iz really hurt or stressed out . And i hope 4 the best 4 u. and keep watching over ure brother, but if u hav sumbdy close 2 u, u shud talk 2 them

Wow, I'm sorry to hear I wouldn't think it's your fault for her life being "messed up" she's the one that gets drunk, well I'm sorry and talk to your family members about it.

God bless you.

OMG that's bad but i would just forget all she said about you because she WAS drunk

You have to remember that she was drunk. People will say anyting when they are drunk and then the next day they won't even know they said it. You should sit down with your mom and make sure she doesn't actually feel this way. If she does, try to change for her. Make sure she knows you love her and make sure you are willing to change. However - if she doesn't want to listen to you or if she doesn't want to accept your changes. Just know that you tried and one day when needs you always go to her. Never get mad or hold on to what you hear or know. Just live your life to the fullest and make sure you accomplish your dreams.
Good luck to you...I'm here to talk anytime just email me LesliCheyenne@yahoo.com

The emotional abuse you are enduring is horrible and my heart breaks for you. But before you think of leaving, do you have a plan? Have you finished high school? Can you go away to college?

Look, alcoholics say the most horrible things - primarily to justify drinking. That isn't really your mom speaking, dear. It's the alcohol. Part of the disease of alcohol is to isolate the person who is drinking, so that it can consume them. Still, that's no excuse. It's just information you need to know so that you can understand that your mom is out of control. She may not even remember what she said tomorrow morning.

But let's talk about you. What do you REALLY want out of life. Is just getting by enough for you? Don't you want a career and a good life? How do you get it? Well, college is always a great option. Maybe not a 4 year college, but even say getting an LPN at a local community college would be ideal (LPNs can make 15 to 20 dollars an hour to start). So, can you live with her long enough to make it through? Do you have a job that will let you move out safely? Worse case scenario, you might want to consider a branch of the service. Maybe the Coast Guard. They do great work if the Army, Navy, Air Force or Marines aren't for you.

Once you have a plan together, enduring your mom's craziness (alcoholism is a form of craziness, in my experience) will seem easier. I'm really grateful for your step dad and I'm really grateful that you are there for your brother. Both of you are behaving responsibly. Your crying with your brother tells him it's okay to be upset.

I'll pray for you tonight dear. I'll pray for your mom too. She needs to sober up before she drives away everyone that loves her. Stay safe.

Well I'm very sorry to hear about that. If my mom said that (drunk or not) I would be too sad to even look at her again. I'm sure she didn't mean it, but I don't know your mom. Hearing that must have been awful, and I'm so soo sorry that she said that. If you would like I think that 17 is legal to move in with a family member. Get a job to get ur mind off things, and as soon as you have enough money, you should buy an aparment. But before you do that, try talking to here about things, like if she meant that, and if she would like if you moved out. I think that because she's drunk, she's just mad. Wait a few days and just keep ur mind off of things like staying at a friends house, or just going shopping. Good luck =] wish you the best