People i know u think its wrong falling in love with ur cousin, but im so in love help me!!?

Would you ever marry your 1st cousin? Before you say "eww" or "gross, no way!" or "sick, how could you ever marry your cousin, that is incest!" or "the kids will have defects!" ....Listen to me for a second. I have a cousin, she is a girl, and we just met last week in over 10 years. (the last time we saw each other was when I was 10, and she was 6.) Ever since we met last week, we have been inseperable. We have talked on the internet 4 days/nights in a row...usually for about 8 to 10 hours. She and I both have told each other that we do not think of each other as cousins. Instead, her and I have declared to each other that we are each others best friends now. And one night when we were chatting, I said "Your dad would never let you and I be in the same room together." My cousin asked "Why not?" I said "because he thinks we are 'kissing cousins'." And then my cousin replied, "But we're not cousins...."

She jokes a lot about us getting "together" but when I asked her if she liked me, and she said No and Yes. She said "no romantically, but yes because you are my other half." I am getting mixed signals from her. Can someone please tell me what is going on in her mind? Is it possible that she is falling in love with me? I've dated a girl before for 2 and a half years, so i do know what love is. But...I am in love with my cousin. I dont care what anyone says, I am in love with her. I would do anything for her. How do I let her know how I feel about her? Does she like me too? And how long should I wait until I tell her that I love her? Seriously...no negative comments please. Dont judge me, because I cant control who I love, it just happens. What is going on in her head? Is she afraid to tell me that she likes me too? Or has the thought atleast crossed her mind? How should I bring this up when im talking to her?

What she is probalby thinking is that she likes you too and she doesn't want you to know... Especially if your are getting mixed signals. That is what happens to most people when they are 1st experiencing love.

No matter what you both are declaring, it still doesn't change the fact that you BOTH ARE COUSINS.
STOP PLAYING WITH FIRE.
Get right with God.

well it looks like she just wants to be friends. she just cant tell u because she's confused about u being in love with her

hun as much as you dont want to hear this is just not right, and chances are she knows that as well.. and you probably do too , i dont think you should tell her your in love with her i can imagine that drama like that would be kinda umm awkward for you and the rest of your family forever , imagine when you break up ad you se her at a wdding down the road ! weird and disturbing an ex who is blood related to yuo


... ide stick outside your own genepool if i were you

Ok clearly there is an awkwardness to all of this, so check it out. I think you should just flat out call her and tell her "Yo straight up, I think the 2 of us should get together sometime soon and just do it in the butt!!" she'll totally understand that you mean business and wanna play hardball, and dont worry that shes your cousins, because your kids are gonna turn out retarded it sounds like regardless who you marry lol