Cousins in love? WHAT is She thinking?

Before you say "ewww, how could you ever marry your cousin, that is incest!" or "the kids will have defects!" ....Listen to me for a second. I have a cousin, she is a girl, and we just met last week in over 10 years. (the last time we saw each other was when I was 10, and she was 6.) Ever since we met last week, we have been inseparable. We have talked on the internet 4 days/nights in a row...usually for about 8 to 10 hours. She and I both have told each other that we do not think of each other as cousins. Instead, her and I have declared to each other that we are each others best friends now. And one night when we were chatting, I said "Your dad would never let you and I be in the same room together." My cousin asked "Why not?" I said ..."because he thinks we are 'kissing cousins'." And then my cousin replied, "But we're not cousins...." And one of the nights her and I were talking, she asked me "Wow we are so much alike, are you sure you're not adopted?" ...Why did she ask that?

She jokes a lot about us getting "together" but when I asked her if she liked me, and she said No and Yes. She said "no romantically, but yes because you are my other half." I am getting mixed signals from her. Can
someone please tell me what is going on in her mind? Is it possible that she is falling in love with me? I've dated a girl before for 2 and a half years, so i do know what love is. But...I am in love with my cousin. I dont care what anyone says, I am in love with her. I would do anything for her. How do I let her know how I feel about her? Does she like me too? And how long should I wait until I tell her that I love her? Seriously...no negative comments please. Dont judge me, because I cant control who I love, it just happens. Is she afraid to tell me that she likes me too? How should I bring this up when im talking to her. BTW...she couldnt get on the computer tonight, so she called me from her dads phone and we talked for 3 hours until the battery died.

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lol, white people crack me up.

to be really honest she does like u more than cousins (incest)..

have you ever heard the saying, you end up marrying your mum or something like that? you guys hardly seem like cousins and you are probably so close because of the relation. It is sad how people would judge you, like you said, you can't help who you fall in love with. Although with you asking not to be judged you must know it isn't quit right for you to feel this way about a cousin. Also, correct me if I'm wrong she is four years younger than you right? which also seems strange how you have fallen for someone with the problem of a slight age gap. Talk to her about it, maybe you just have to ignore the feelings, by the sounds of it her dad wont approve but whatever you decide to do, good luck and remember, you may love her but you said yourself you have been in love before so you could love again.

i get the feeling that she does like you but the fact that your cousins is holding her back, lets face it the whole family would go crazy and it could cause alot of arguments, I'm afraid you might not be more than just friends which is probably best because of all the friction this potential relationship could cause stop and think about the ramifications if you were to get together with her, would your family except you as a couple, what about the legal side of things? i don't mean the age thing i mean the cousin thing at least look into it before you declare your feelings you don't what to end up in prison for incest, good luck.

i think she lkes u. so just tell her. if she says WHAT?? tell her that she is your best friend and u like her that way to avoid any troubles. but if she says yes, good. eww.. its weird but when i was small like, around 5, i fello in love with my cousin and asked my om if i could marry him!!!!! will u believe it??? but then as i grew up, i couldn't believe myself. r u adopted? or do u knopw u r adopted? i hav a strange feeling that she could be ur real sister. just ask ur parents about it.
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Cousins falling for each other is not unheard of... it happens alot!...probably everyone has had a little crush on their "cute/hot cousin" with whom they "really connect with" and some people actually have deeper feelings like yourself. She probably does have feelings for you aswell, but in the back of her mind she knows that you guys ARE cousins and it may not be socially acceptible for you two to take it further so she is giving you mixed signals...she probably wants you to know she likes you...but is not making it obvious because she also knows its not moral for cousins to get together...( i'm not trying to be mean so please don't think im saying you guys are gross). But I think you two have to think about what is right and wrong...and you should work this out togeher.

If you are first cousins, some states will not allow marriage. Your offspring are at risk for birth defects. If you are not 1st cousins, it would probably not be a problem. As long as you are of legal age of consent and you are careful, be happy.

That sucks, it sounds like you have feelings for her, but she's still your cousin. Life isn't fair, and you can't date your cousin.

I would spend time apart before you do something stupid. I don't think it's morally wrong, but it would be frowned on my most of society.

And then she might just be playing games with your head. Girls are cruel like that.

okay ,... so maybe she likes you more than a cousin should . But , i think confessing your "romantic" feelings for her might have a negative outcome . Sure , if she likes you back (romantically) you'll feel elated and stuff but think about your family .And if you really love her , you should know your duty as a cousin and friend -- to make sure that she marries someone who's right for her . and though i think you won't hurt her .. you might hurt an important part of her life - her/your family . so , if you can, don't get too mushy/romantic with her . :)

Its rare to find that kind of love, go for it. And yes she clearly has a crush on you...she is just hesitant to date you because you guys are cousins...ask her to come over and hangout...and then talk about it!!

Also pray about it!

Trust me she likes you for sure, again...she is afraid to get romantically involved because of the cousin thing. But the fact that she invited you to visit her says a lot.

i just noticed... you have posted the same question 10 TIMES!!! ALL OF THEM IN DIFF TEXT...

what do you really wanna hear from people, you already have your mind set on loving your cousin!!

it doesnt matter anyways, this doesn't wprk in the way you get people voting saying yes or no... it's her choice

she is much younger than you are as well...

There was something about that on our news over in Australia. It's called Genetic Sexual Attraction. Where relations, who haven't met one another before, or were separated from a young age fall in love.

Here is the link to the story on the news:
http://video.msn.com/video.aspx?mkt=en-A...

Here are some other helpful links:

http://www.geneticsexualattraction.com/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genetic_sex...