If you can analyze dreams, please analyze this strange one I had.?

A half goat, half man, (like from Shakespeare) was measuring me. By the measurements he took, he could tell what kind of person I was and what I was thinking. He told me I was a very moody person, shifting my moods all the time and I could be very selfish. He was nice about it and was telling me not to worry, because every one could be selfish. Then my husband (in real life) came in the room and got mad about this.
Then my husband (in real life) and I got married (but it felt like the first time getting married). He then surprised me by carrying me outside where their was beautiful plants and it looked like a castle. Their was a symphony dressed in white playing my favorite song, it was so sweet. We then got into a bronco with my husbands dad and some others, that I didn't know, but I felt like they were family. ( I felt it was very odd since I haven't really met my husbands dad, he died when my husband was 17).

So we were on our way, when my husband turned into a mouse, I wasn't frightened by this, it seemed normal. I thought he was mad since he crawled on the floor to sleep, I felt like he usually slept in my pocket.

We then stopped in this town where their was a cement factory that made cement columns. The people of the town made houses out of these columns and weird sculptures. This town was very dry with sand, large rocks and it was just boring. ( This is the second time I have dreamed about this town)

We then ended up at a hospital or hotel, I am not sure exactly what it was. I saw people that I went to high school with, but they weren't people that I was friends with, they had kids and I didn't. I am not sure why I was their.

Then I woke up.

The half goat, half man is a satyr or faun. They sometimes represent an excess of the physical pleasures, especially sexuality. So, I feel you are measuring your sexual attractiveness from a "playboy" point of view, which, of course, would leave most of us girls coming up short! Your husband is mad about this because loves the WHOLE you, moods and all, and does not measure you by "playboy" standards.

You got married again because your husband is always needed to repeat his "vows" to you, telling you he loves you for who you are and is committed to you. Perhaps your husband's father represents Father God as your witness that you and your husband have a loving and committed relationship. I'm not sure about that, but is possible.

There may be areas where your husband is not confident, and that is why he turned into a mouse. Maybe losing his Dad at such an early age left him feeling he had not example to follow in learning the art of being a man.

Also, usually he would "sleep in your pocket" because he feels safe with you, but because you continually measure yourself, you are making him feel small because you do not accept him as a man whose opinion matters. By not accepting his word that you are beautiful, you are saying to him, "You are not a real man. Your opinion doesn't count. I would not be attractive to a "real man." That is how it makes him feel when you do not accept his evaluation of your attractiveness. So, by having to "marry you again"... once again repeat his love and commitment to you, he has been made to feel less of a man, and that undermines his confidence.

The concrete column factory symbolizes that there is no one mold for beauty. If we all looked the same, life would be so boring, just as you described that town.

Do do not compare yourself to anyone else. Dress and act as if you are the most beautiful woman on earth. By doing this, you will double your attractiveness and it will build your confidence. Some of the most attractive people I know are not so physically perfect. It is based on their presenting themselves as feminine, lovely people, Some of the most stunning women are quite large, but they make a strong fashion statement (hats, scarves, pretty eye make up...), they wear perfume, and just act like they KNOW they are princesses or queens. If you will do this (you don't have to be bold, but you just wear things you consider pretty and put on your perfume and make up if you like), wear pretty lingerie, etc. if you like it. All "packages" look even prettier when nicely wrapped.

Prance by your husband sometime, wearing just an normal outfit, and whisper, "I'm not wearing any undies," or "Guess what I have on UNDER this." This is especially effective if you are about to go out shopping together. ; - ) Just LITTLE things to intrigue him and keep him guessing. It will make him feel VERY desired and manly, and a guy needs this.

You may not be a bona fide beauty queen, but you are HIS queen, and he chose you. If you say you are not lovely, you are discrediting his opinion. If you don't feel it, FAKE it til you do. This is not a lie... it is faith.

Ask God to show you how HE sees you, as well. That has made a huge difference in my life.

God bless you.

I think lala is right. You're completely ignoring your husband's needs and presenting your marriage as "perfect" to impress others. ...and you know what, if I thought for a second that you would actually listen to me I might go into detail.

Its a very long dream to tell you this ;;; Your marriage is on the rock and I am afraid ; theres no turning back ; but you have to accept that you didn't do much to help and hold your marriage together