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She spends all of her time with her boyfriend--I'm sick of it!?


Three years ago, we met som,e cool people who go to a different school. We鈥檝e gotten closer and closer to them, and they are our best friends, but its always been hard only being able to see tehm on the weekend. Lat summer, my best friend hooked up with one of them. Their relationship has been going really well, but the last 6 months, she鈥檚 always spendind her time with him. I never see her during the week (I have way too much work and we don鈥檛 have classes together), but she insists that she need to spend so much time with him because he goes to a different school. But she talks on the phone with him every night, she spends more time with him than with me.
They started dry humping in front of us while we were watching a movie, and I found out that like a month later, he fingered her and she gave him a hand job. Now , she can make tons of time during the weekend for her, but none for me. Because I have a lot of high level courses at school, I have way more homework than she does. She talks to him every night, and I found out that they have phone sex, too. I only get to hang out on the weekend. I have less contact with her than her bf鈥?but whenever I say 鈥淲e never do anything together鈥? she says 鈥淲ell, he goes to a different school, so I never see him!鈥? I never see her during the week, either! We don鈥檛 even see each other at school.
Yesterday, I went to the park with everyone, and my friend couldn鈥檛 make it. I had a chance to finally hang out with her bf alone鈥?and he acts totally different. He is FUN鈥?not just quiet and always wanting to kiss her. It is like before, when he was my friend, not just Emily鈥檚 boyfriend. It was cool to be able to hang out with him, nad I鈥檝e gotten used to being ignored by tehm, but now that I remember what it is like to actually have fun, I鈥檓 realizing how unfair it is.
Then tonight, we were watching a movie @ someone鈥檚 house, and they were spooning. I was like, 鈥渁www! Cute!鈥? Then I realized that his hands were on her boobs, his hands were in her crotch, and she put her hand behind her back and shoved them down his pants! Not only is she doing **** like that, but she鈥檚 doing it rite in front of us when we鈥檙e all supposed to be hanging out. Then, when we were alone, I mentioned it to her, and she just said 鈥渋ts none of your business鈥? Well, if she鈥檚 gonna be a wh0re like that and give him a handjob in front of me- it becomes my business. I think that鈥檚 low and disgusting. OK, so she wants to do it. Big deal. Do it on her own time, rite? Not when we鈥檙e all supposed to be hanging out. And when you go somewhere with a group, but you only hang out w/ ur bf- then it鈥檚 my business.
We were all hanging out, and she told us to leave the room for one minute just so they could make out,. They locked the door and everything. When they finally unlocked it, she was pulling her shirt down.
I鈥檓 sick of this!!! I want my friend back鈥攏ot some skank-whOre.
WHAT DO I DO?!?

This is not your friend...she is a whore...kiss her goodbye!!! is her life and she can do whatever she wants with it, so, don't worry about her....Thank God she is not your sister.....
Really, friend, you have more important things than to be watching porno alive.....and you all deserve respect.
Obviously she has none for any of you...but what do you do??? stay and watched the movie and her shi-t......this is totally your decision.....girl.
When we face situations in life, there are ALWAYS two choices...you stay or you leave, you take it or leave it......nothing never stays in the middle, because then the fool is you.

Sorry to say but at the moment this boy is her flavor of choice. there really is not much you can do. I do wish you the best of luck though I know this can be hard. my sister acts just like that when she has a new bf.

dont get mad or anything you can make new friends i was in the same situation once and i got in a fight with my friend but youll have plenty more to come starting with me ill be like your best friend

Either love what she is or kick her to the curb. She sounds like she has just gone down-hill. give her th boot..she sounds too skanky to me!

summery?

stop hating and get your own bf. sure she's a little open, but why are you watching.

I know exactly how you feel,and I think you should just not talk with them any more.And can you tell me what dry humping and spooning is?

well aparently she dnt care sooo u should move on

that was way to dang long for me to read your gonna have to make it short enough to fit inside a harry potter book

she has made her decision. now it is time for you to move on or accept what she is offering.

jelous ***** **** you :]

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i stepped on cheerios now I'm a serial killer D;

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omg get a life and stay out of their business. if you dont like what they do then dont hang out with them thats what you should do. you can't give him what she does so just leave him alone. unless you are in love with him and if you are stop being a dumb *** and let the man know!

i totally see where you are coming from, but she has made her decision. stop trying to make plans and don't invite them to tag along, especially if they do sh!t like that in front of everyone, omg ewww. i don't care if my friends do that sh!t, but in front of everyone!? come on... anyways, just move on, and if she really cares she'll make an effort to see you. if not, it's her loss.

find a new friend! there are way better people out there to be friends with than skank whores. haha. trust me. i used to have those kind of friends until i finally learned my lesson!!

What do you do???
Maybe you should write a book that no one wants to read.
Jeez..get a life will ya

ok, this could have been WAAAY shorter, but just dump her for a while.

when she misses, you she will appreciate you. trust me, you'll get hurt if you dont just dump her for a while, cuz it will hurt your feelings if she comes crawlin back when they break up.

show he you dont need her to breathe, just go without for a while.

its so easy. thats her life. and the only reason she doin the in front of yall is because you allow he to be rude to you like that. there is no other excuse. cut her off.

find another friend. trust, she'll have a time when she wants to talk to you again but you won't be there because karma is a...well you know, and what goes arond comes around.

and i can understand you being concerned about all the *ahem* "activities they're engaging in, but you can't stres yourself out about it, it's her life, not your's and you can't make her change her behavior. just stop watching.

i mean i know when in a relationship people want to be with thier b/f or their g/f but i think they should alsoo make time for friends too. i think thta's selfish on her part, you could try talking to her again and if she still is rude seriously, just leave it alone. it's a waste of her time and yours.

Ok firstly you are mentioning a little to frequently about where they are on the sexual acts ladder? Why is this so important to you sweetheart?
If they continually do things like exhibiting themselves infront of you all and you don't like it, then you need to Tell Them!! Not just you but all of you. If you can't then don 't invite them to your get togethers and you can explain why if they ask.

People always become on cloud nine in new relationships and spend alot of time together. They are not the first and we are all guilt of it.
I completely understand your frustration its sometimes to much to bear. But please be patient. Explain kindly to your friend that you miss them. You have no problems with her relationship but if she wants to keep her friends then she needs to make them a priority too.
I suggest having a girls only event so she can come back to reality. Everyone gets excited when they are having a new sexual relationship and want to explore it whenever they can. These two need to be told that they are offending their friends and need to get a life. They are the only two people who care about how many handjobs he got etc.
Don't get all angry and in her face, just be patient and explain how much they are offending you all and you need some much needed girl time. She will understand it may not happen straight away but it will.

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