Does she like me, or did I F**K myself?

OK, so there is this girl I met a coffee shop. She's almost a year older than me, but it doesn't seem to make a difference since we're both Airmen. We talk for hours, then I asked if we could go somewhere more private. So we go to her room, there she shows me pics of her family and former days. From what I read online, her body languge was saying she was intrested. She keep playing with her hair, scratching her arm, smiling a lot. So she let me kiss her, but after it I suggested maybe we should take it slow, then she says she just wanted to be friends right now. a couple days later, I went and visited her place and she was still showing signs of flirtation, but I when I asked her out for a friendly thing to do. she nevers has an opening, she doesn't say no, just she doesn't have an opening. Should I give her sometime before I ask again or should I just move on?

She says It has been about three weeks since her last relationship, and She says she's been in a few heart breakers. Hind sight makes me think bring any of that stuff up was a no-no. But I really like her, I felt we really conected that one night. she gave me her cell number and her work. plz I can take as much advice as I can get, this is the first real realationship I've really been in.

Maybe you invite her for quick getaway for the weekend, nothing too romantic but somewhere you think she might go to. Then the ball is squarely in her court and you will have your answer.

make sure she knows how to get a hold of you and tell her to let you know when she not so busy. She'll respect you for it and also let her know you are really interested in hearing from her. " if you are near empty, don't wait for the fuel truck, go to the next station "

definently give her some time, unless you have another girl interested then go for her, but give her some time, maybe she doesnt have any openings, it definently sounds like shes interested.

I hope everything works out!

Let her go.
She is running hot and cold.
I just got out of a "relationship" like that.
If she cant admit to liking you she is just ******* with your emotions.

I'd play it cool, give her your number and say well when you get an opening I can fill it.

I mean, say give me a call whenever you've got some time.

If you like her, ud give her time.

give her a little bit of time...ease into the relationship more and make sure she doesnt feel rushed or uncomfortable

depends how you feel about her..
it this leaniing more to the friend side or more than a friends

Tell her how much u like her. If she doesnt accept: her loss, if she does: u hav a girlfriend...

give her time

She really likes you, I'd just plan things a bit in advance... also just keep in contact... you are 95% of the way there, just keep going for it

Maybe she thinks YOU just want to be friends..although I commend you for suggesting you take it slow. I think she was probably using "let's just be friends" as a front so that she doesn't feel silly if you're not interested. So, ask her out again. Be specific in where you'd like to take her..and when and what time...then she pretty much has to give you an answer! Good Luck!

Giver her some time! She may just be shy and not too sure about the signals you are giving her. Men, just like women can be complicated to read sometimes. Or perhaps she was in a bad relationship and is cautious when it comes to men? There was this guy I really did like alot, but every time he invited me to do something I always turned him down out of shyness and fear (my ex hurt my pretty badly) the end result was he lost interest and Ive NEVER been so bummed. If you like her, give her a little time and then just be straight forward. Tell her you think shes great and interesting and you want to get to know her better. Ask her if there is a chance that a relationship can happen between the two of you. She likes you, she just needs time.

sounds like shes not looking for a relationship. she may be looking for casual sex. if you can handle having casual sex with her without catching feelings, you just struck gold.

next time you see or talk to her be just as flirtatious and try to touch her, like her arm or elbow or waist. or tickle her. get a physical touching level with her and hope for the invite back in. don't try to pursue her anymore. just flirt and let her come after you.
good luck

**Well after that important information that she just got out of a relationship is vital. just go with the flow, she may be on the rebound and you could get hurt. hold back your feeling and by no means tell her how you feel. Show her how you feel, be there if and when she needs you.

your in dangerous heartbreaking territory my friend. be warned