Okay, so me and this guy have this thing, and i need opinions?

we didnt see eachother for a long time, but he msgd me on facebook when are youcoming down here and then all past weeek we were talking thru facebook msgin on how to get me to his house then it finally worked and i went ther, and then he went to pick up his friend tom and so we all sat in his room watching this tv series, then my friend Marie(his sister) called to get him to pick her up from her friends party, and he sent his friend to go get her. so we took opportunity and then we had sex (for the 1st time), and then yea cuddled on his couch then marie and tom showed up and so i had to go hang out with marie cause well we have a secret thing going.but the next day was my other friend amy's grad,and we didnt pay any attention to eachother cause well nobody knows we're involved, and we didnt"do anyting"more all that weekend cause he had his friend and i had mine, then him and tom drove me halfway to meet my mom and he said "till next time" as goodbye. so does he like me or not or what

and weve been messing around every itme i go to his house for like a year, but i dont go there THAT often, this was the first itme we ever you know.

well it depends what you want from this relationship do you want it to be fling,friends with benefits or something serious.once you decide on that you'll also be able to tell exactly how he feels about you.for now it seems that he likes you its just that your not in a serious relationship therefore there isn't really much to say.Also try to talk to the find out what he wants in life where to from here especially when you like him in a way that you would want to get into something serious with him.Good luck and be careful don't become a spare wheel,weekend special or friends with benefits cause you just might get hurt in the process.

Does he like you?
uh, no.....
he's taking advantage of an opportunity;
and you're letting him.

why aren't you willing to let people know ...you guys obviously have something "going on" ....unless he doesn't want people to know ...then he's using you for a booty call ....

this is usually where girls screw it up.. u are the one in controle, dont for a second think u need 2 make him like u or hes using u. u are using him is what u have 2 think. if he wants 2 keep foolin around he needs 2 work for it. let him almost kiss u then stop him, n say after we go on a date. or SOMETHING.. why arent u telling people? is he related 2 u or something? i dont get it, if u like eachother why not let it be known. does he have a girl? sounds like ur friends n his friends are chummy. so why not, let it out there. seems like he really wants u, so when i say girls usually screw this up i mean, they start calling constantly saying they love you n getting all weird. you have what he wants, guys love workin for it. so use that. also, sexual barriers are HHOOTT like when u have a reason u cant touch eachother it drivers u nuts, so if u do end up 2gether ull probly have 2 work on having sexual barriers 2 keep it intense

MHO:


I never agree with the whole "friends with benefits" thing. To me, no matter how much people try and pretend that they can have sex without being emotionally involved it just won't work.
I mean, you hadn't seen this person for a long time and then all of the sudden he sends you a message on facebook. You go over to his house and after hanging out you have sex. (And that's all it took? I'm not judging you just curious as to what value you place in your body as well as sex.) I think he sent you that message because he must've known what the end result would be.

What are you hoping for with this guy? I mean, really, if he knows he didn't have to do all that much to get what he really wanted, he probably isn't that into YOU so much as your vagina.