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Got myself into a sticky situation here. Can you help me?


Got myself into a sticky situation here. Can you help me?
Okay so I my probation officer gave me some comm. service at YMCA. Over there I met a cute guy who gave me a call and since then we've hooked up. He's the main boss of the place. He's 27 and I'm 18. We go in the piano room and make out for long periods of time. He calls and practically texts me throughout the entire day. We've got really attached now to the point where he doesn't want me flirting with other guys/kissing them/going out with them, etc..He doesn't want me to give my number to other guys. He said "you're mine." Anyway, my 30 hours are over now and I'm scared he's going to get really upset if I end it with him. How do I do this?

He said "I love you" too...it's not him, it's most guys that are stupid to immediately fall for me..it's like I trap them with this innocent, cute face that they would probably die for. I mean, there's something about me..I am very deceitful.

Tell him once it's over and not to contact you. Ignore all his attempts to contact you. Keep a record of his communications and file a complaint if he harasses you.

Also, contact your probation officer immediately and tell all -- a controlling guy like that will likely try to make your life hell for rejecting him, and he'll probably try to threaten you with telling your probation officer. Get there first. Besides, the guy may do this with other women sent to do community service there, and the probation officer should know there's a problem.

First, tell him it's over, sorry but you aren't the one I even plan on marrying.
Second. Do not under any circumstances respond to him. If he harasses you too much, file a police report on him.
Third. Stop the flirty kissy behaviour. That's what got you into trouble this time, and from the sound of it, in the past too? Don't you learn from past mistakes?

If you want to end the relationship just frankly, but gently, tell the other person.

In the long term you should not mislead others or enter into casual relationships. Keep yourself pure for the one person whom you will marry someday. Respect the temple of the Lord, your body.

Tell him immediately.
Tell him that under no circumstances will you communicate with him any longer, and that you're sorry.
And then DO NOT COMMUNICATE WITH HIM under ANY circumstances.
DON'T DO IT AGAIN.
We have the power to hurt others.
That doesn't mean we have to use it.

Ever think of quitting the being deceitful stuff? You'll save yourself and other people a lot of trouble.

Yes, I always think women who are on probation are innocent little things. Get real will you.

Seeing this is religion & sprituality my answer to you is pray.LOL

Disappear. My guess is that's what you usually do.

Stop flirting and dedicate yourself to God.

One day He will give you the right man for you.

Just because guys are attracted to you doesn't make you decietful.

Nor is wanting to end a relationship decietful - you didn't start it because you were looking to get something out of it, you started it out of mutual attraction.

But I hate to say this - make sure you're totally signed off on the community service before breaking up with this guy so he doesn't get vengeful and claim you didn't do the community service.

Also, when you do break it off, if he threatens you or anything, point out that he seriously broke the rules and he could get in trouble as well if he tries to get you in trouble.

Otherwise, date. It's good for you.

I had guys asking to marry me after only a few dates when I was your age. It was disconcerting. I agreed to one guy cause he was great and I did love him, but he was just not very smart and I could not see myself married to someone who just didn't get most things for the rest of my life.

EDIT - Gary Oster is right. tell your probation officer.

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