Why is it sooo hard for us for me and him to say good-bye?

we called it quits like a month ago and yet neither one of us can't get over one another. The reason for calling it quits was that he was gonna have to now move 700 miles away. Anyways it didn't stop him for still calling me nor did it stop me from picking up the phone. When we talked we talked as if we were bf/gf again but neither one of us said i love you b-4 we hung up we'll just be like bye. Okay so we always talked on a daily basis but the last day we spoke was since last friday so its been like 5 days for us not talking. So tonite he called after 5 days n i was missing him terribly and he's like hey what's up n we talked n laughed . As our convo kept on going he said he meet a girl and he's like he sort of likes her. When he said that im not even gonna lie..tears started falling from my eyes n then my lil 8-year old sis came in the room and was driving me nuts and i had to say hold on n stuff and then my mom needed the cell phone and like i just kept on talking 2 him like i

i just went to another room and he started calling be babe and when i told him i have to go he was like NOO!!! and then i did eventually gave my mom the cell but i called him back from my house phone and he told me like when he called me he taught he could handle it. Then he herd my voice and how alot of his feelings came back and he said to me how could he compare the girl he meet to me and was like i love u baby and we both started crying over the phone. he's like now we talked back he can't ever imagine of loving another girl and like it was emotional. Then my dad rung the door bell n then i was like i have to go (dad is strict) and b-4 we said good bye i said i love u and he said i love u more

idk im just like confused like was this meant to be

i really love him and i kno were both 15 but the communication n bond we had was better than some 20/30/40/50 yrs old bond

I sincerely feel for you. I can see how much you love one another and only by the small bit that you've written here. People may say that since you're only 15, that you should let it go but don't. Keep in touch with him. You may have to change the type of relationship that you have for now though. People that once loved eachother in their teens, often meet back up in their adult lives and end up getting married. Who knows?

How rude of him to tell you about the new hot girl he met!!!!! Let me tell you although this will be hard, it is time to cut the cord.

awwwwww, How sweet!! You should call him back & ask him if he really ment that he loves you, because like if he does then he shouldn't be trying to like see other girls & stuff.

arh i kno how u feel my bf n i like i moved its not that far but stil n his familiy didnt like me much an i hated that fact so we broke up n we still talked everyday like it was like we never broke up n he still told me he loved i did too an his voice was still on my voicemail untill he told me that he went on a date which was like after 4weeks of our break up thats wen i finally realized that we were really over an ever since its just messy he tells me he loves me an yet does nuthin to show it its like we take everything we say in the wrong way now cuzz we r both hurting n its just ah complicated

it is very clear that you are in love with him and you do love him. How long were you dating? Is he marriage material? May be you should consider moving with him...

It's so hard to say goodbye because you shared such a strong bond. Things like that are hard to just snap in two and move on. But it sounds like he might be trying to push that along with the comment of the girl that he found and that he thinks he likes.

I'd keep in touch, but move on and date others. There have been pairs in HS that I thought would marry and be happy forever, because they were together for as long as I knew them. Ironically, they didn't end up together. College changes people. This is why I say date others. Who knows, you might end up finding someone even better, and your current ex-bf was merely the experience you needed to see that the next person is the right one. Or, like someone else said, you may end up bumping into him later on in life, and realize that you two were meant to be together. Either way, you're gaining experience about what you like and don't like in guys, and learning about who you are in the process, which will be invaluable when that magical time comes. And don't be afraid to stay single for a little while! You can learn a ton about yourself this way, and have a lot of fun doing it too.

You do have a lot of time ahead of you though. Keep in touch with your ex if you can. Distance has a way of making it difficult to do. It sounds like you will always be close, and that's great, but don't hold out for him at this point in time, especially if he's looking in another direction already. Don't let it interfere in his life, and definitely don't let it interfere in yours.