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She spends all of ehr time with her boyfriend, what do I do?!?


Three years ago, we met som,e cool people who go to a different school. We鈥檝e gotten closer and closer to them, and they are our best friends, but its always been hard only being able to see tehm on the weekend. Lat summer, my best friend hooked up with one of them. Their relationship has been going really well, but the last 6 months, she鈥檚 always spendind her time with him. I never see her during the week (I have way too much work and we don鈥檛 have classes together), but she insists that she need to spend so much time with him because he goes to a different school. But she talks on the phone with him every night, she spends more time with him than with me.
They started dry humping in front of us while we were watching a movie, and I found out that like a month later, he fingered her and she gave him a hand job. Now , she can make tons of time during the weekend for her, but none for me. Because I have a lot of high level courses at school, I have way more homework than she does. She talks to him every night, and I found out that they have phone sex, too. I only get to hang out on the weekend. I have less contact with her than her bf鈥?but whenever I say 鈥淲e never do anything together鈥? she says 鈥淲ell, he goes to a different school, so I never see him!鈥? I never see her during the week, either! We don鈥檛 even see each other at school.
Yesterday, I went to the park with everyone, and my friend couldn鈥檛 make it. I had a chance to finally hang out with her bf alone鈥?and he acts totally different. He is FUN鈥?not just quiet and always wanting to kiss her. It is like before, when he was my friend, not just Emily鈥檚 boyfriend. It was cool to be able to hang out with him, nad I鈥檝e gotten used to being ignored by tehm, but now that I remember what it is like to actually have fun, I鈥檓 realizing how unfair it is.
Then tonight, we were watching a movie @ someone鈥檚 house, and they were spooning. I was like, 鈥渁www! Cute!鈥? Then I realized that his hands were on her boobs, his hands were in her crotch, and she put her hand behind her back and shoved them down his pants! Not only is she doing **** like that, but she鈥檚 doing it rite in front of us when we鈥檙e all supposed to be hanging out. Then, when we were alone, I mentioned it to her, and she just said 鈥渋ts none of your business鈥? Well, if she鈥檚 gonna be a wh0re like that and give him a handjob in front of me- it becomes my business. I think that鈥檚 low and disgusting. OK, so she wants to do it. Big deal. Do it on her own time, rite? Not when we鈥檙e all supposed to be hanging out. And when you go somewhere with a group, but you only hang out w/ ur bf- then it鈥檚 my business.
We were all hanging out, and she told us to leave the room for one minute just so they could make out,. They locked the door and everything. When they finally unlocked it, she was pulling her shirt down.
I鈥檓 sick of this!!! I want my friend back鈥攏ot some skank-whOre.
WHAT DO I DO?!?

You need to get another set of friends. Its difficult when you have a boyfriend and trying to make time with others is hard. Your will find this out when you have your own boyfriend.
I do think that she needs to conduct herself in a more private manner. I also think that she does these things to shock you all, it certainly works because obviously you are all talking about her.
If it annoys you so much then find another good friend and dont pay this one any more attention, because she is loving it.

girl you need to find another friend because it sounds like he is all into her.. so just find something else to do and someone else to hang around..

I was in the same situation as you, my friend spent all her time with her boyfriend and when we did get to hang out they did stuff like that.
That is until I got a bucket full of ice cold water and dumped it on them.
I told them that I am not sitting here while they feel each other up so either they stop it or quit inviting me.
That solved that problem, but as for the spending all the time with each other that lasted awhile longer until I had planned a girls night for just us two and she brought him along.
I flipped, I told her that I had planned a girls night and she couldn't even tear herself away from him for a night. I told her that was it and to call me when she wanted to be friends again.
She was pissed and we didn't talk for about a month, she was telling everyone that I was jealous which was so not the case.
Eventually I got ahold her and explained that I missed spending time with her and all that stuff. It worked and we are closer than ever.
P.S she is still seeing him but now have a girls night at least once a week.

If your life consists mostly of hanging around with your best friend, then this is not a good situation. But I am not going to give you any advice on how to change this because I think that you should be able and enjoy being alone.

As a child, I loved hanging around with my best friend every day, ignoring that he had other things to take care of. I always asked him if he wants to come out and play, but I had to learn that there are more important things to do (for me and him).

No offence,
but you sound a little jealous... especially since you decided to go and voice her life on the internet.

You got to accept the fact that people change, and make up your mind if you actually want to be friends with her or let her go.

If she actually means something to you then you've got to let her "phase" run its course. All girls get caught in guys, I can garuntee you that eventually it will happen to you. If you stick by her while shes pushing you away in the future she'll return the favor, if she doesn't than you know where she stands. <- that is from personal experience

and on the note of her horny antics, talk to her calmly if she listens thats completely up to her but atleast you voiced your opinion.

Im like that, so what u said skank=whore i dont take it offensife and all u need to be doing is minding ur buissness and get ur self a bf and leave her alone..

GET IT GOT IT GOOD...

Interesting... while their behaviour in front of you may be indiscreet and disgusting, you can't 'get your friend back' and it's not unreasonable for someone to spend more time with their partner than their friend. What do you think happens when they live with them? Sorry honey, I have to make sure I spend 55% of my time with my friend and only 45% with you even though we are married... It doesn't work like that. Friends are important, yes - but there's a reason you don't marry them! You have (or should) have feelings for a bf, fiance or spouse that you don't have for your friends. This is all part of growing up, and when you meet a guy and start dating you will understand better. When you leave school, you will realise it's even harder to find time with your friends when you are juggling work commitments, family, and partner (and one days kids) and trying to squeeze your friends in around all that. The most you can hope for is that your friend learns some discretion in front of you.

Incidentally I don't think you have grounds for calling her a skank-wh0re if the only person she is sexual with is her partner. If she starts having sex with the entire school, then you can consider calling her names.

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