Soo... i slept with him and he hasnt called?

ok sooooo it was a crazy memorial day weekend. i kinda sorta had a crush on this guy there who i invited over to the hotel room to chill with me and my girls. ok so he shows up and we start drinking we both got pretty drunk whatever ... so he said he was gonna go by for alittle while cause he already had plans well he left and came back like an hour and a half later .... we just wandered off the two of us alone and ended up having sex. Now me and this guy have been friends for not too long we met about 3 months ago and he's come over to chill at my house and stuff but always with other friends but he was constantly always inviting me over his house and stuff but i never chilled with him alone like that. ANYWAYS well its been 2 days ... 3 if he doesnt call today ... and NOTHING i had texted him the next day saying hey his reply was "yea" soooo i was like wat u up to? his reply" im sleeping i'll call you later" and he never did ....

tell him to **** off!!!!

i hate to tell u this but that how all guys r they get *** then they never call u back they just go for new *** that they can get and the cycle just goes on and on for ever or in tell they get married with ever one comes first. and him being your homie he might feel ashamed {not in the bad way} because he broke that trust u guys had going

What do you want him to say?

"Thanks for being my live dildo." (No ?)

Face it, when you sleep with a guy who has no "love" ties to you - he doesn't need to own up to what he did. You were basically a standing cow with her C U N T up in the air waiting for the bull to mount her.

Welcome to the WWW.

(Wonderful World of Whores.)

Too bad you didn't get paid for this.

Should the dynamic of your friendship change just because you drunk slept with him? do you think now that you are in a relationship? Just watch yourself next time you get drunk. He doesn't owe you a phone call, you haven't even gone out on a date with him.

I think you should leave it now, if you keep trying he'll get annoyed and it might seem clingy.
If he calls play slightly hard to get just so he knows you're not just a booty call. But if he doesn't call within the next two days forget it and move on.

HELLLLLOOOO!!!!!! girl all he wanted to do was sleep with you. Read in between the lines. Its not that hard. In fact i bet you money he has other girls who he trying to sleep with next. Dont worry about him Thats lets you know he's nothing but a dog

You gave him what he wanted. A one night stand. He will not call you because you gave him what he wanted and now he's going to be a dog to you! If he does call you, I will be pretty surprised!

Sometimes the chase and pursuit is all some men can commit to, once they catch you that excitement is all gone. I am afraid you have been used. Chock it up to experience and move on.

been with ny gf for 3years, still waiting to have sex. This is why you dont have sex after knowing a guy for 3months, but your doing better then most ppl, having sex within the first week!

Well you were both totally drunk, maybe he does not remember and if he does then yeah you were a booty call sorry. Men are jerks that way.

listen mama u was used he played u ...
i would of never done that to a girl he f***** up hit me up anytiem if u eva wanna talk ill be here

Men aren't pigs! Women are too easy. Chalk this experience up as a loss and learn from it.

Whores attract pimps and ladies attract gentlemen. Always be a lady!

Are you guys like married now?

But really, should you guys speak more frequently now since you've had sex? You're still just friends.

More than likely he just saw you as a booty call. You should of seen that coming after he just plain flat out ignored you.

Guys loose respect when you sleep with them right off. Leave him alone and dont get clingy and waite next time.

forget it, he used you, delete him from your phone, and forget you ever meet him. i am sorry

well, hes not interested anymore. just forget him.

It sounds like he already got what he wanted. My grandmother had a saying,: "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"

you pretty much got used to be blunt time to move on and chill out with the drinking

You were an easy piece of ****!

He used you. I am not sure

you were used, and this is exactly why we call men pigs. their assholes. dont even waiste your time talking to him.

I wouldnt say you got used, because it was consensual sex.

I would say that he sees you as being easy and definitely not girlfriend or long-term material if you are into getting drunk, hanging out with guys alone, and randomly having sex with them on a whim. Judging from his one-word responses, it sounds as though he would only keep you around as a possible fkbuddy. If he wasnt even interested in your friendship or possible future benefits, he wouldnt have bothered responding. That being said, he is clearly not interested in anything more than that with you.

Sorry if it sounds harsh, but its just the way the world works for girls. Guys cant understand that girls can like sex or want it as much as they do and not be sluts. That equation makes no sense to men (it actually has a name, too. If I remember correctly, its called "mother-whore syndrome".

first of all, theres no way a guy is shy with a girl the day after having , if he liked you he would call you r text u the littlest thing, the fact that he made an excuse not to see u,
aww i just wana kill guys like that, i think u should of ben with a more mature man, just look at us girls, if we ar seeing a guy we dont think we are interested in, we wont tell them how much we like them, but men?
they could lie and lie and lie tell u whatever you wana hear just to get u to sleep with them its so sad, even though pigs maybe more attractive 2 some women, its always better to pick a funny, genuine person,
but its ok girl u learn by ur mistakes thats the only way, he will look like a loser when u have a real man

I'm sorry sweetie but if you and the guy weren't together he really doesn't have to act like he cares. It sounds harsh and all, but guys are pigs. You may feel something for this guy but that doesn't mean he felt anything for you. If anything he probably just wanted to get laid and he found the opportunity and took it. It does not make you a whore, it just makes you a bit naive. Girls and guys don't think alike. When we sleep with a guy we do it because there are feelings involve, but when guys sleep with a girl its just because they want to get laid. I say just be careful who you sleep with. Don't make the same mistake again.

well I hate to admit it but I kinda went thru this not to long ago.....and it sucks...but truth is it was just a ...I was attracted to him and him to me...nothing more.I mean honestly we're way to different.It was just sooo great.Maybe he feels like he made a mistake because you guys are friends or maybe he just was attracted.Dont let it get you down just know you had a good time and let it go at that....if it was gonna be more than it would be already.(he wouldve called back) Im so sorry.

awwwwwwwww
mabe u shud just invite him over