I told my friend i was bi and she said.........?

she said ..i think i am to
lets go in a dark room and see what happens
WTF?
was she just messing with me?
or was she 4 real about it?
im sooooo confused .....and a little weirded out
i just met her this year and i have been trying to help her fix her life
she use to cutt drink smoke pot and ciggs and other stuff thats alittle to personal 4 me to be saying
so i figureded if she could trust me with all that i could trust her with this ...but was ahe teasing me?

irish_jimmy
ur just like my ex
and i hate my ex

Well you can usually tell a persons feelings by their body language, behaviour and esp. tone of voice. If she looked dead serious and the was too then..maybe. However, if she was curious, then i dont think she would say it like that tho, so she might have been joking around and i doubt that she would tease you about it if she was a true friend.

Just make it clear to her how you feel on the situation without being to agressive or forceful. Hopefully she will understand.

Hope this helped :)

She may have been joking, or she might not have been. It's almost impossible to know without being there or knowing one or both of you. But I would make it clear from now on that you are not intrested in her romantically. If it comes to it, you could invent a long distance relationship with a girl who moved to another city.

Try something like this: "I'm so sorry if you feel differently from me. I didn't tell you for that, I told you because you're a friend I can trust, and that's what I really need right now. I like you a lot, but I think things will get really weird between us if we mess around." Be gentle, be firm.

hmm. it could be either; think about what her face was like when you told her and was she kinda laughing or did she sort of hold back a bit and then say it? is she the kind of person that would take it as a joke or does she know you were serious? but since you don't like her i wouldnt worry too much

ok so you say you can trust her just like she can trust you... well if shes a friend then she wouldnt be messing around. just talk to her about it and see what happens. who knows maybe youll find what yoiur looking for... it doesnt hurt to investigate

Well, why don't you and her get together one night.....drink a little wine, and go from there. Take it slow and easy. I wish you the best of luck......have fun.

shes probly thought you were kidding not alot of people come out to there friends alone and yea she probly thought you were kidding with her theys why she said that.. im pretty sure she wouldnt say that to mess with you.

Girls that tell me "i think i am too" kind of freak me out.
Sweetie it sounds like you have an unofficial counseling type relationship with her, so I'd keep it just friends.

No - most girls are bi - go with it, you'll love it

ask her if she was serious and take it from there. if you're interested in her, then see what happens.

she's just messing

wow i think she was 4real lol nah umm my friends tease me some we all laugh i mean she a lil bi too she jus fronting like it nasty

Let me grab a camera and we can all find out together.