Men... why does he do this?

My ex and I have been broken up for the past 5 or more months...
I try to avoid him as much as I can. But when I do meet him I act normal, not avoiding-like.
So I wanna kno why he acts like this: when he sees me he doesn't even look at me! wtf??? he doesn't even say hi even though he is in the same ****** room as me! I had a friend observe him and she told me he behaives really weird, he AVOIDS ME, and feels uncomfortable around me. BUT when we are online he TALKS to me. he acts like a normal person. but in person he acts like his day is completely being buchered. why does he behaive like this? and how can i get him to stop, what should i do?

he started ignoring me when we were together, our relationship was screwing up idk why. never knew really. but bcuz he started fading away I broke up and he was totally fine with it... i thought that was what he wanted , i thought he didn't wanna hurt me so i had to say the obvious to make it official but b4 this we had been bestfriends for 8 years...

He has been hurt emotionally and doesn't want to subject himself to further hurt. That is why when you are in person he avoids you so as to avoid the pain of further hurt and rejection.

Appositely, on the computer he can hide behind its anonymity.

He is doing this cause, ITS NOT NORMAL FOR HIM AS IT IS FOR YOU.
this guy is either :

still loves SO MUCH but he is resisting HIMSELF.

OR he is so HURT that he wants to avoid pain interacting with you.

Or he feels embarrassed coz he was feeling a certain obligation to you and he wasn't up to your expectations.

find out which one is he and deal with it accordingly.

Heartiest wishes.

some guys are like that, and i cant understand it either. if you can talk to someone online or on the phone, you should be able to talk to them in person. maybe you did something to him that you are unaware of? come up and talk to him in person and ask why he does this, and make it clear to him that you would like to start talking in person. as a guy i can personally tell you that when a girl comes up to me and says strikes up a serious conversation, i listen to what she has to say.

why are you talking to him online?

It sounds like he's still pretty upset (and or angry) about the breakup. He doesn't act like it online, but he just can't face you is what it sounds like...

Why are you still talking to him at all? Next time he tries to talk to you online, just tell him that you will start treating him online how he treats you in person, i.e. ignoring and avoiding him...

Good luck.

Hmm... when i am writing this there has been no answers so soz if you kinda expected me 2 b frst. He just duznt talk to u in public cuz it is sooo way less awkwarder than it would be if he was talking to u in person, and people say stuff the dnt meen online and through texts so dnt b fooled!!!

He got to the point to discover that, Your are a very manipulative person.

He want to be nice with You ,that's all.
You are not His Mom.
You are only a player.( and You are only playing and He know)
love Him? I don't believe You.

this answer is easy ..
get a life ...

Online conversations provide annonymity to reactions and the "unsaid" words....likely there is still some feelings of either love or resentment towards you which he is afraid will show on a face to face....but online the feelings (positive or negative) can be masked with just words.

You insensitive brute. He's just reeling under the weight of his sadness, his sense of loss. Of course he'll have trouble relating to you, especially in public. He must of really loved you.

who broke up with who. Possibly he's trying to prove the point to his classmates or friends that he doesn't need you and that he doesn't have feelings anymore...I'm not really sure, I'm not a guy.

He has another girl, and doesn't care about you as much. You don't want to seem like a b*tch so when see tell him your with somebody, that why he'll leave you alone.

u broke up with him, what do u care? Look he's just going through some stuff and i would suggest u just leave him be. when he's ready to talk with u face to face he would.

Maybe he doesn't want people to know that you two are still okay with each other now that you're exes.

maybe he still cares for you and its diffiuclt to come into contact with you as He feels that way.

you go to him and ask straightly.becaus no one knows wat is in his mind............................

Well its easier to talk to some one when your online and maybe he still likes you? Maybe he hasn't totally gotten over your breakup? :O

no one is going to be able to answer this question but you. To me it sounds like you have done nothing wrong and its his problem. So for now don't pay attention to him, be nice to him but don't show him its bothering you. If you show your happy and nothing he does will bother you, he will soon leave you alone and use will both move on. It's life and it happens all the time you just have to move on and be as happy as you can all the time otherwise people get you down to much if you let them .