What should I do with this girl?

I met a girl at my university one day and we made small talk. She seemed pretty cool and I got her number. I never talked to her though (my phone for some odd reason would instantly end the call as soon as i hit talk .... ppfffttt sprint!) Anyways, I ran into her at work the one day and she remembered me and she was with this gay guy. It turned out that this guy is her best friend and got a job there with me. I asked question about her and he arranged a party at her house and we ended up in her room after the party. Nothing happened sexually but i did give her a masage (i know, lame!). we talked the whole night untill 5 in the morning. what do you think my next move should be?

You have made a good start. Good not to rush her on the sex, and wonderful you talked all night. Things are looking very good indeed. Now ask her out, she is obviously interest in you. Since you enjoy talking with each other, try taking her to dinner. A great way to get to know each other better.

I don't think it's lame that you gave her a massage! In fact - the fact that you spoke all night and had some special but not sexual time together means she sounds pretty interested.

Phone her and ask her out on a date!!

if she is an intelligent girl she will not come with you more,she will think that you have no passions,anyway if got a chance more try to satisfy her ,she is on theway for that....

Giving her a massage was not lame, it was actually a really good thing to do, and super sweet. Ask her out, like on a date. Sounds like you're both into eachother.

tried to call her,then after a minute of conversation ask her the things that she really likes and dislikes... ask her favorite movie and ask her to watch it..

Ask her out to dinner and to one of the following :

*A movie
*Go rid go karts
* Putt Putt
* Go out dancing
* Go to a spoken word club
*Goto a jazz club.

ask her out--if she allowed you into her room and talked until 5am she's into you dude--go for it!!

and good luck!!

Next time you give a full body massage. And remember, no just means you need to try harder & longer.

I think you should ask her out on a date. Looks like you're both interested! Good luck!

Ask her out on a real date, if you thought that she was cool.

IF U LIKE HER, JUST TELL HER HOW U FEEL, AND IF SHE IS ON TO U, THEN WELL..........

ASK HER OUT ......!

uh ask her out if u like her

try spending more time with her to start off with..

buy her dinner .. take her somewhere fun.. don't try and sleep with her yet. and um.. massages are NEVER lame.

I can tell you now that if you were able to spend (wat I'n guessing was at least 5 hours) in a room with her without trying anything but a massage... I think she would be VERY interested... or she just thinks you're gay one or the other... I mean she obviously has gay friends so she might be the kinda girl that surrounds herself with gay men... I have a lot of gay friends and if a guy started giving me a massage and not even hinting towards heading downstairs I have to say I would have some reservations about his interests in gender... not because you act it just because its very uncommon...

you can ask her on a date. right after you pick up your members only jacket from the dry cleaners on your way back from bradleys. Times changed, dates dont exist for us youngins. Are you asking for advice on baggin her or making her your girl?

If you want her to be your girl, than call her again. Borrow somesones phone. talk all night with her. make it a habbit. a couple days later, you guys hang out. after you hang out a couple of times, introduce her to your friends. By doing this, for that moment, she will feel like your girlfriend, and she will open to the idea. after that, play your cards right and boom. Dont attempt anything sexual untill at least the next time after that.

If u wanna bag her, invite her to a party or something. Make her feel good about herself, complimenting her constantly. Alcohol usually helps this process. This is really how smooth, funny and charming you are. She is at least interested in you enough to let you waste her time talking to her, so its all you now. lol.


GOOD LUCK