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I just came out to my best friend i feel odd because...?


I ask her to meet me on the chat room after her class because I needed to talk to her. When she did I told her I am bi sexual and have feelings for her. We chatted for an hour about my self coming out and my emotion depression I was dealing with. She said she was fine with me coming out and that I like her she supported me, she even told she is sexual confused herself. After that she ask if she can come over I ask why and she said I don鈥檛 have to if you want me to. I told her I didn鈥檛 mind. She had to get off online because she was going to work. So she came by then we watch TV. she was there for 30 mins then left to go to work.Nothing happen and we didn鈥檛 talk much just only about the movie. But why did she come over? I felt awkward because I told her how I felt about her. I am bisexual girl.

even if thought she might've vist me because she is being a friend but i just think she did that becuase she might care for me too.? i dont know

Well the good news is that you coming out to her/telling her the truth didn't scare her away. It's hard to tell at this point what her actions mean, I wouldn't over-look into it. It is pretty normal for an awkward period to follow big news like this. I think it was really brave of you to tell her, though.

I was in a situation like that once. My friend ended up being straight, but there was no way for me to get over the depression/hopes that she would like me without telling her the truth. If I were you, I'd just let things settle in before making any moves. Let her have time to absorb this new situation. It seems possible that she likes you, but at the same time she might have just come over as a friend, to show you that she cares about you.

Sorry I kinda rambled...haha. Anyway, good luck with stuff :)

Well you just admitted that you were sexually attracted to her... and she admitted that she was the same but not admitting she was attracted to you. Maybe she would like to experiment to see where she stands. Maybe I'm thinking to much about it and maybe she doesn't want you to feel awkward and pretending that what you told her doesn't bother her.. and maybe it doesn't. Maybe she feels closer to you now. No one knows for sure except her.

I think Magnolia has it exactly right. It sounds to me like she's reassuring you that your revelation didn't shock her or hurt her or make her angry. She's telling you it's fine and she's okay with it and is not closing any doors on any future happenings.

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