My boyfriend/ son's father and I have just gotten back together after a half a year separation.?

Things are exactly where we left them, literally. First off, I'm the reason for our reunite; when we talk, it's because I called. When he comes by to see us, it's because I asked. 2nights ago I wanted to surprise him with a striptease, so I asked him to come over. I came out of the room in a sexy lingerie fit and 4inch black stilleto's and he says, "No baby, not tonight. I'm tired, I just want to hold you and the baby and go to sleep". Now, I don't know if I'm wrong for being mad, but I'm pissed! This is exactly why we split in the first place, no quality time. We haven't had sex with eachother in almost a year. I get excited with just the thought of him, even more with him by my side. Shouldn't he feel the same? I feel really stupid going the extra mile to make things work and he's not meeting me halfway. What should I do, I'm thinking I should just let it go, but am I overreacting? But he doesn't act like he has missed me at all. Everything is done on his time, what should I do?

He says he loves me but it doesn't sound real. We split up because of his lack of communication and his need to be with his "friends" all the time. He disappeared completely once I told him I was tired of it and he needed to change or move around. So, he took it out of hand and never called or came by for about 8 or 9mths. I was really feeling bad because I figured he wasn't taking care of his fatherly duties because of what we were going through. So, I swallowed my pride and apologized. Why? I don't know, I'm not the one who was doing the wrong, but I didn't want my son to feel like his father didn't want him. We talked things over, got a better understanding of things and of course, had sex that same night and 4 days later, we come to this. Right back in an unwanted and unhealthy place. Yet, he get's jealous about guys and what time I come back home, things like that. What is wrong with him? Or me? He says he want a family, but haven't proven it. I'm soooo lost, please help.

Well, I think if you take a step back and look at your situation, you know what you should do. Give you kids a good example of a strong (maybe single) parent. Not a wishy washy doormat. Sorry for the mean analogy.

i hate to tell you but you need sex to make a relationship work. if you are going to this bother and he is not interested he is not going to change. either you go and buy a nice large toy and enjoy yourself with that of find someone who will rise to the occasion and satisfy your urges and natural desires

Read the book, "He's Not That Into You." It has the answers.

I am wondering why you are chasing this guy? Is he really worth all your effort?