My wife and I don't like each other, help. We have three kids, I hate her, she hates me?

We met in 1999, it was all about sex. Now that we have kids, we don't even sleep in the same room! I can't stand her!

if you guys "hate" each other, you guys still care about your marriage. To hate, you have to care!!
Work it out! If not, be adult and be civil for your children!

You should probably get divorced. I understand you are staying together for the kids, but what sense of family and a loving home environment are you really providing them? Kids can sense things and probably know there is something really wrong. I know that divorce is hard on children, but an un-happy home life is worse. If you are happy and love your kids to death, then they will find happiness.
I was in a similar situation and my husband and I divorced. I have 1 child and while the divorce was difficult, he is much happier now. Mainly because my ex and I have always tried very hard to get along now that we are apart and to put our son's best interests as our number 1 priority. If you and your wife can agree that your children come first, then you can be successful as single parents.

well... I think all the couples go through the same trouble at one point in their lives, but what you guys need to do is to re-discover yourselves...what made you fall in love in the first place, because I am sure that you must loved her and what happens is that once we get comfortable with a relationship we often forget to keep the flame on, we take for granted our partner and after some years together we come to realize that...the love we once had..it's gone. I am a strong believer that the love never goes away....it's just asleep, hiding somewhere in our hearts, it's just a matter that we wipe the dust away and start the resuscitation of the LOVE, I can assure you that if you guys are determined to try and re-build your marriage you can do it, it's worth to try, after all you owe it to your kids and to yourself too, you can have the love and happiness that any family can have. We all walk through rocky paths....we just need to figure out that marriage is not easy at all, but we can try and make it a little easier.

You can try some couples therapy, but this will work if both of you are really committed to give it another try, if you two decide that it's not really worth the try...then you should go separate ways and find the happiness you need somewhere else. Good Luck!