My vegas trip. is it cheating?

My friends and I went to vegas on january. There was 4 of us. We all married and been good friends for a long time. We were out all night pretty much in strip clubs and regular clubs. This was a 40 bday present to one of my friends.
The very last night we went to a bar and meet 2 women. They were around our age and both were single. Me and my friend( I call him T) shared one room and my other 2 had another room. So my friend and I bring these 2 girls up to our room. T immediatly got in bed with the girl and started making out. I was in bed with the other rubbing her back, i grabbed her chest several times but we didn't do it. She did not feel comfortable doing it in front of my buddy. So we left. I was horney but I figured no means no. We had coffee. She held my hand and told me the she really wanted to but she can't do it in front of her friend and if we can get another room she would. I wasn't interested at that moment. Did I cheat? I know my buddy did but did i?

BTW ladies who believe their husbands are so good. Vegas was an unbelievable experience for me and really opened my eyes. The guys who I thought were committed to their wives slept around. I could also say that those 2 women were married. I saw one of them take off her ring.

omg...i'm married and even reading this and picturing my husband doing that would break my heart.....whether you did it or not that night....you wanted to cheat,sounds to me you wasn't even thinking about your wife....you do not deserve her....and if i could judge by your letter,i'd say you've cheated already earlier or you'll do it sooner or later! you we're horny?wtf??you are married!!!if you are horny and your wife isn't around you masturbate!!!!

Be thankful the situation turned out the way it did. A lot of permanent damage could have been done. Take it as a caution and never allow yourself to be in that predictament again. It sounds to me if the situation would have been different, you may have continued and cheated on your spouse. I would admit, confess what happened to your spouse so she hears it from you and not from another friend/spouse.

yes, you cheated. Any physical intimacy with a person other than your wife is cheating. I am really sad to hear this, while your wife is probably totally unaware that you disrespected her for a night of fun. How would you feel if your wife went with her friends to a bar and took to hot men back to their room. Imagine her lying in bed rubbing on another man. I really think you should come clean

Yes it is cheating. Just put yourself in the opposite situation. How would you feel if your wife had grabbed another mans penis but he had said he was uncomfortable to continue. That if his friend weren't there she would have slept with him. How would that make you feel. Just saying. I would have my fiance's balls and everything else that belonged to him if he ever did that.