I dont see my wife the same as I did when I met her?

I have no desiree to make love to her anymore. I enjoy being around her when she is in a good mood but it almost feels as if we are just room mates , not even friends anymore.

You have to work on the marriage - too many people just up & leave these days - you have to romance her like you did when dating. She's probably bored with you too!

Thats too bad. I know the feeling though. My boyfriend and I have been together for a while and we have a child together and anymore if feels the same way. There is no more spark. Maybe you need to spice things up with her. Roll play, costumes, etc..Maybe your wife needs some kind of anxiety RX if she is cranky a lot. I think after a while that just happens. You get so caught up with life and stuff you forget why you fell in love. take a romantic trip together and re-capture the magic!! Good luck!!

William,
I was married to a man that never touched me... it was agony! He always assured me there were no problems with him physically. He looked at porn sometime... yet there was no passion for me any more. You can not image how painful that is!!! I told myself I would rather have a good man then a good sex life and stayed for 12 years for no sex, not even cuddles!!! I realized somewhere in that time that it was the intimacy I missed the most. Please take a moment to remember. Talk with her about the great memories of the two of you and some of the sexy things you used to do. If you cannot wake up that libido for her Please get help!!! I will never again allow someone else to decide for me what I need and don't intimately. Turn around no William, there is no next better thing out there, there is just the next thing. Best wishes. Light & Love,