How do i tell my boyfriend i dont want to have sex with him?

the shorter story- we started going out yesterday and he's already wanting to have sex, but im a virgin. and he wanted to have sex before we started going out but i said no then also, so i think he just asked me out because he thought i would have sex with him? how can i just say no i dont want to have sex?

now for the long story. i was at my friend christinas house & she fell asleep in her bed & her step brother was still in the room with me so hes like let's have sex & i said i cant, and he asked why, i was like just because. so then we made out and did some other stuff like that lol, so then he said lets go into my room & we did the same stuff in there and all he wanted to do was have sex with me. and then the next day i had to leave early, but then we met up at the movies later. and he is wearing this shirt that says "hump and dump" and i was dumb enough to say yes when he asked me out.

so yeah i just need to know how to tell him i dont want to have sex

Tell him you dont believe in casual sex.
I think his T shirt says it all.
My dear you dont need him.

Self pride, self esteem can be seriously undermined when sex is given for what is in effect a wish to have a friend...a good friend doesnt ask for more than your friendship.
You are TOO GOOD for him...but feel sorry for him being sucked into the I'm cheap, I just give it away lot.

honestly even if you loved him, you need to break up with him because he keeps pressuring you and you keep telling him no. but yet he keeps bringing it up. if the guy loves you, he would be willing to wait for you and would stop talking about sex. what if he went back on your word and raped you. i know you wouldnt want that so think about it and make the right choice. personally i think you're better off without this guy and some guy will come after you eventually who is caring and sweet and is willing to wait for you.

Hey girl i think he really just wants to have sex with you and doesn't really love you but if you don't want to have sex with him just let him know and if he loves you he will respect your decision and wait until you are ready but if he doesn't i suggest you leave him ,good luck, best wishes.

You have to be very firm and very honest. Tell him that it is against your beliefs to have sex outside of marriage. Tell him that you won't do anything to disappoint your parents who trust you. If he still doesn't understand, you will have to move on.
Don't play those dangerous games in people's houses or anywhere else or it will end up with sex. You

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