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Help. I was young and stupid. I'm lost as what to do.?


Long story. The summer before my junior year of high school I met this guy on AIM, he was 26, while I was just 16. He spoke of how he wanted to be with me, and that we could make it work as soon as he met my family..blah blah blah. Ladies, this man was gorgeous. Amazing body, great job, nice car and motorcycle. Seemed like a great guy, but no girlfriend ir anything. Which I didn't understand. Anyway, I ended up having one of my friends drop me off with him in a town about twenty minutes from my hometown. So, the first thing he did was take me in his room and started kissing me. I was freaking out. 16, virgin, and started to get scared for my life. He wasn't aggressive with me, but very very persistent in having me do something that an unwilling 16 year old shouldn't be forced to so with a 26 year old man. We did not have sex. But since then, everytime I hear of online predators and such. I get sick at my stomach because I am scared he is still doing that to young girls.

Just months after, I met my boyfriend, whom I am still with of three years. I want to put it behind me, but like I said, everytime I hear of those things, I think about it. So, I emailed him like two months ago just to see if he still existed. And he responded like 5 times after I didn't and was saying, yeah, you were the young softball player, and like tried to get me to respond. Now I wish I wouldn't have even emailed him because I am ready to move on with life. And if my boyfriend found out that I emailed him, he would be extremely mad. He knows what happened. But, thinks it's behind me. This man needs to be in jail ladies. What to do?

Yeah it's scary and it is reality. Some people think it is not going to happen to them and a lot of times they end up in a ditch somewhere. It was in the past you see your mistakes move on and don't make the same mistake again. I am not sure what the problem is, is it that you can not get over the fact that you did that because if it is than you have to understand that everybody does things when they are younger. do not beat yourself up about it. you live and you learn. thank god you are okay and that experience only made you stronger and now when you see a young girl on here that is talking about meeting a man she met online or something like what you went through than you can help her and share your experience so she doesn't have to go through the same or end up raped or dead.
Leave it alone don't bother with him, get him off your mind you are safe now and you have a good head on your shoulders a boyfriend and know not to do that. there is really nothing else you can do.

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