Question on relationships after divorce?

Ok ive asked questions like this before. I am going though a divorce. Have been for over 7 months. Seperated from my ex for over a year and slept in a seprate room than her six months prior so really nothing went on of almost two years with her.
I met someone. I have dated around 4-5 women and nothing happened nor felt anything. But this one women ive kinda liked for a year. I finally got the nerve to ask her out. And BOOM!! instant connection. We have went on around 7 dates and just hung out on her front porch talking. She knows im not divorced and what im going though. But the other day we were talking and she seemed funny so i asked what was the matter. She said that we both agreed that we would take things slow but im starting to have real feelings for you.. Well we talked alittle more and that night i was like i kinda felt the same. Is that wrong of me.? To have feelings for someone when im not divorced. Would i date her .. HELL YEA! how long should i wait before i ask?

I was married for 9 years but for about the last three we had big problems and just stayed together for the kids. We didnt love or hardly like each other anymore.
So i havent felt like this in over 5 years about anyone. I just dont want to jump into anything that will break my heart. My biggest fear is a broken heart! yea i know im a baby lol.. But i do have a heart and when i give it to someone i mean it.. Thanks for your input. And if you want more details email me or message me
kuikviper@yahoo.com

Either way if ur heart gets broke, then it does. I know u don't view this as a rebound but it is sorry to say! I'm not saying it would not work out becuz some of the best relationships come from rebounds... Follow ur heart and hope for the best... whats the worst that can happen?? She can leave ya?? Well won't be nothing new now will it!! Think positive, leave the negative thoughts out and hopefully everything will work out for ya.

U obviously knows she feels the same way so what the heck are u waiting for... just do it... ur wasting precious time that can be spent together!!

You're separated! This means you're no longer morally required to be faithful to your wife. Nobody is being betrayed, and you're both moving on, which pretty much makes you free to meet somebody else. My ex and I both did before we were divorced. Taking it slow if you want to is never a bad idea.

In my mind, you're a married man and have no business dating until you've cleaned up the mess of your marriage first.
But do whatever-- obviously everyone else does whatever they feel, not what's right or decent.

You are done with your wife, even if you are still legally married there is no reason not to pursue a woman you click with, Im in the same boat and im still married with a divorce pending.