This question is mostly for guys...?

ok i totally dont want to sound mean but... i've been with my husband for almost 6 years married for 6 months... he's one of the sweetest guys you could ever meet and has a really big heart. but i've noticed that when he's around certain friends he gets kinda mean like purposley trying to embarass or making jokes about things that HE KNOWS VERY WELL that i dont want anyone to know. sometimes it's so bad that i have to leave the room to cry cuz im either embarrassed ashamed or astonished he would say something like that. my husband is a sensitive person and im not sure how to talk to him about this. what do you guys think?

i really dont think he realizes he's doing it or he dont realize that it effects me the way it does. i mean no offense by this but guys have a tendinsy of not realizeing things like that.

We're guys, we can be insensitive d-bags sometimes. Especially when we're around friends and alcohol.

That doesn't condone our actions, I know.

well i don't know your husband personally but its a known fact that every boy/ most boys wont to be the BIG guy in front of there friends, and in order to do that they try to make other people laugh at what he has to say, if thats making jokes about other people then thats what he will do, he isn't trying to offend you or stop your marriage. and definatlly tell him how you feel maybe that way he will realize what he's doing is wrong and hopefully stop =).

WOW- I'm a guy, but I will say he does not respect you while certain friends are around.
I hope you are sitting down and I hope there are no kids in the oven -
LEAVE this LOSER.
If he does not respect you in the first 6 months of marriage, it will not improve. Is he immature? Is he about 22 years old? LOSE him. There are a lot of great guys who know how to treat a lady. See a lawyer and divorce him. Take your money and jewelry to your mom's and LEAVE QUICK!

he sounds like a lot of guys, some guys try toi act macho around other guys because they are afraid of looking wimpy by being caring to you in front of them, confront him about it and tell him how you feel, if he respects you he will change, tell him he should man up and stop acting like macho jackass every time his buds are around, a man who is truly secure in his manhood doesn't need to act that way.