He had an affair with the married neighborwife!!?

What shall I do?

He has apparently been texting and emailing with a woman.

In one email the woman said its hard for her because she has been married with her man for so many years and they have two kids together. And in another email she cancels the lunchdate they had because she couldnt find an alibi. In yet another email she writes that he says he is so unhappy with me but yet he spends hours on the phone with me every evening which is hard for her to believe if hes so unhappy with me.

And now he claims that all they had was a flirt and nothing happened or will happen and that he just likes her, she has a dog that she takes for walks every day, i guess thats how they met. She has his workemail, workcellphonennumber.

And he expects me to believe nothing happened between them after reading those emails???


They even had the nerve to invite us (her husband and me) to the apartments.
How they can even sit there in the same room as him and me and pretend like nothing. I

I understand now why she has been a bit ********* y" towards me and saying humialiating comments and been trying to start conflicts between him and me. Geez i always wondered why sshe was so mean to me and asking all these personal questions about my family and me. One time she said her daughter is going to have perfect teeth when the railway is taken off from her mouth and she said that she hates people with bunnyteeth, thing is that I have a perfect smile but my two front teeth is a bit wide (not long though) and some people has tried to use this against me that dont like me but I know its really nothing. While she said it she started at my mouth.... Just that they cant find anything else to complain about my apparence....

Well the emails pretty much explain themselves. She couldn't think of an Alibi this time so she must have been able to other times. I wouldn't right of the bat think that they slept together, alls you really know is that they had been talking and hanging out. Which is wrong in my book, especially if he is sneaking around doing it, cause that means he knows its wrong. It would be different if he told you he had ran into the neighbor lady and they had coffee after walking the dog. No biggie...:) ok maybe a little but his honesty would have been good enough at that point. I would confront the neighbor lady ask her women to women what happened tell you already know but you want to hear it from her or you will tell her husband everything. You'll get the full story trust me. ...IF you really want to know.

Unless he showed you these emails himself then you are guilty of invasion of privacy and he could sue you for quite a pretty penny if you broke the news and defamed his character as well and might even get you breaking and entering if you did that as well....

I think you need bring it up in a round about way....

He's betraying your trust and straying from you... it's cheating, even if its not full-fledged physical action. You deserve honesty and faithfulness, and if you communicate these needs to him, he better respond like the husband he took vows to be.

Kick her butt and toss out your husband. I read your additional details. I stand by my previous answer with the exception that I would blackmail that slut! I would use the information against her to tell her unlucky husband. The poor guy needs to know.

Do not get involved any longer especially with a married woman