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I'm a housemaid, And the man I work for's Mother want me out "NOW".?


I've been a maid for a man for 8yrs, Initially we dated, But he admitted that since he is always away, He really loved me. But he couldn't be there for me like he should. And so a relationship would be damaging to both of us. I laid off a few months after we decided a relationship wasn't a good idea. But we kept seeing eachother. And he asked if I would be a maid for him, And that I could stay in my own room, Because he goes on trips for a few weeks out of the month, Often he is only home for 4-5days before leaving with the occasional 2week vacation. The first time I met his Mother was a month after I had begun the job. Which really is simple, He wanted me to "lighten" the place up and decorate it, Keep it clean. Not just in house, Outside and lawn and whatnot. Initially I was paid on a budget, Given checks and whatnot. His mother told him she didn't like me and she felt I was using him so I told him I would leave if I was causing problems. He begged me to stay, And his Mother -

Got mad and left for a few months, He had come home one day very depressed and sad, And we talked for hours working his problems out. He explained to me he wanted to me stay because having someone here at his house, Gave his life a more chipper side, And it gave him reasons for being excited about coming home. Over that time he eventually started buying me stuff, ALOT of stuff. If he want out of country he bought me things like dresses. :\ I understand that I seem like a spoiled person, But I never wear these things unless I see him, I make my own clothes. He also took me off the budget, And over the past few years he has been home alot more than before, And he know wants me to go with him once he gets through with his current project, On trips and such. His mother came over last week, And demanded I leave or there WILL be consequences. I understand she has a right to worry for her son, But she is now threatening me? She is overstepping boundaries, She showed up drunk a few days ago.

Girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The problem is for you to understand your role. Are you his girl friend, Maid or what?
For just a maid its too much of a hassle get out of it and get a new job, But when it comes to love, like and relation.... You should talk to him. When you love him and think he feels the same way about you... Commitment and MARRIAGE is the best option.
Discuss your relation with him girl, Forget the maid issue, If it is all about just a job, you will find much better ones around...But it doesn't look like. The issue is all about the man and love... address it the right way!
ALL THE BEST!!!!!!!

YOU DID SAY...."IT IS HIS HOUSE" !!....... THERE'S YOUR ANSWER HONEY.......HIS HOUSE....HIS DECISIONS !!!

hes useing you cant you see that

If he wants you to stay, and is paying you for your work, I wouldn't pay his mother no mind.

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