My longterm girlfriend of 7 yrs left me, cant move on...please help?

hi!we were living together for 7 yrs without letting our parents know. we loved each other so so much,her family are very very rich and powerful in china and i am from average family from vietnam, its all my fault that i never tried to learn chinese language, never tried to find decent job(workking in small shop)i never agree to settle down in chinaas i have to look after my parents aswell,she used to pay all my bills, she had a decent job in her cousins company here in uk..she coudnt even think about life without me and same for me aswell.well i thought everything will get better one day...but suddenly she met one guy inrroduced by her family a succesful chinese,she then one day moved out to live alone, her reason , all i mentioned above. i agreed to change but she said its to late, coz i didnt try anything for our relationship, all my things she is sorting out still,now i cant move on, she had moved on,always remember her in the room, cant move out because of contract.miss her so m

i was hoping for one chance ,, but no chance now,, i know i cant hate her,,coz she was with me for this 6 yrs despite her parents begging her not to be with me,,its not something that i didnt try at all, this is not my fault that her parents dont like foeigners, nyway, i am so so hurt at the moment,, she also crys a lot over telephone,but clearly says cant be together, its too late as we r nearly 30 now..and her parents are over the moon by this,,,
i just stopped eating and talkin to friends, lots of memories in this room and outside everywhere,,,i dont have any aim now,, i know she will be more successful than me and i dont want to let her think i am so useless,, please help me to move on first please,,, please, this is serious help for plea.i couldnt stop cryin, dont know why...please help

ok your sadness is normal.. and yes it was your fault..
you have accepted this.. now how to move on... you need to move.. to a new place.. your 30 years old.. still a young man. think of it as being free to experience life in a new way.. few men get a chance for independence after 6 years..
I will tell you.. personally I was with a woman for about 8 years when we finally broke up I was upset as was she but. eventually as time passed by and I met other woman it became less painful.. since then Ive been with many different woman and finally I learned that not all woman are the same and the one I have now is much better than any I have ever known even the one of 8 years.. I have met my mate and I think you will also meet the right one for you.. if you have to pretend that she died in an car crash.. that way you wont think about how she is somewhere with someone else.. im not kidding... you have to try to stop thinking about her and start to make your own life a good one.. improve yourself in any way and in many different ways and you will become attractive to woman .they will want to be with you and you will get to pic which one you want.. and never again be at the mercy of parents..hers yours or otherwise.. remember she moved on to better her life.. you must do the same she did the right thing. you do the right thing now..

life is short and time passes fast... you took things for granted being so complacent. anyways, no one is perfect but you can still make things right.

meet new friends... soon you'll meet the right girl for you.. if that happens, be sensitive (not oversensitive)...

well, if you are completly sure there is nothing you can do to get her back.. then you really have to move on and meet new people don't dwell on the past even though it was 7 years. live life :)

Hahaha, you must be butt hurt. Let this be a lesson.