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Why did he lie about his first time? |
I met this guy in college and when he and I started getting to know eachother, the topic of sex came up. Considering he was a big football player in HS, I had the assumption that he was experienced. Anyway, he told me that he was a virgin (which I found hard to believe). A year later, I was taking a class with one of his old football buddies who told me about a gf or 2 he had in HS...basically they used to be locker room talk about how he was screwing them. I was kind of caught off guard about this and wasnt sure how I should feel since I was under the impression that he never had sex before me. When I asked him about it, he "confessed" and said that yes, there were 2 girlfriends in HS but he didn't consider what he did sex (head in pulled out bc they were scared). So should I be upset about this? I feel lied to and Im not sure why he even felt the need to lie.It wouldnt have been a big deal at all if in the beginning he just told me about it like I told him about my experience well, I STILL think he's lying when he says that he didn't do it. Im not sure why, but it really pisses me off. I am just not sure why he had to lie...and Im going to find it hard to trust him. I think of it this way...its not like we were 14 or something...we were adults...sex is not unusual at our age lol. He CHOSE to tell me he was a virgin...if he didnt want me to think he was a pig, jock etc. he could have just said something like..I had a couple gf's in high school and we did stuff but that was HS...and it would have been over and done. Maybe he was trying to impress you or he was embarrassed he hadn't done it yet. I would guess that you told him that you were a virgin...? If that is the case, he probably wanted you to feel comfortable, and/or wanted you not to worry about STDs. Regarding the 2 girlfriends... he knows that they had sex. I am sure he told all of his buddies that he did. I don't know that you should be pissed at him, but you should demand to know why he chose to lie about it Well, he didn't really have sex either. I don't think you should be upset, really. He's probably ashamed about it. I wouldn't worry too much about it because like you said, you guys were just getting to know each other. He probably didn't know if you guys would end up being good friends so he didn't say much. And then I guess he just didn't want to bring it up in the next year that went by. |
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