Opinions needed here?

what is wrong with my long-term boyfriend, we have been dating yrs, when things got stuck in a rut, he ran back to his gay best mate, and slowly but surely left me.This guy was always third party in our relationship...he wanted him on hols with us last yr. before we split, if this gay mate went anywhere without my man,even on a saturday night out, he would pine and cry and fight with me to the gay guy came back.then he started spending wed nites in this guys house and calling me from the toilet, when he was flushing it. he wud also never answer this guys calls when with me,call him as soon as i left room, and go to the toilet to txt him.we hav been split 2 wks now, he is spending every night with this guy, i know he desperately wants to meet me, i can hear it in his voice, and he returns my calls. he seems frustrated and worried. and when i call him the cute things i used to he hangs up the phone and seems upset.what is wrong here?? this is serious, no jokes...

He has got to be gay, the only time a guy should have to hide a phone call or a text is when theres something bigger he is hiding, sounds like he has you on the back burner.

cant wait to see the answers to this one.

anyway, your "man" from what i read here is gay, period, theres not really much else to explain. you mean to tell me, you cant see this and figure it out??? c'mon now.

sorry, but he is gay. a relationship won't work, maybe a friendship.

Honey, wake up. This guy is gay as they come. I know you see it.