I having problems with my g/f...I need HELP!!!!!!?

We met in a chat room and talked for a couple months and I moved all the way from ky to co to be with her. We've been together about 7 months and things just arent woriking out. First thing she has like 30 cats and it's to much for me to handle, she doesnt want me to work so we're poor and shes taking care of all those cats. She wont helo me clean the housr so i have to clean up after her and all the cats. We hardly ever make love any more and when we do i never have an orgasm. This is the first lesbian relationship i've been in and i need help. I love her so much but I cant handle all the stress....HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i am sorry to say this but it sounds as if you are being thoroughly exploited. It seems you were taken advantage of, eager for your first real relationship and prepared to accept a lifestyle of her choosing but as is now clear, not to your liking.
You may love her but there is no way this can work, no matter how submissive you are and it will just get more stressful for you. Leave now, go back to ky and try to pick up the threads of your former life there, because you will have to leave eventually as the stress worsens. She has her cats, she is obviously devoted to them so it is not as if she will be left alone.

First of all, why does she have 30 cats? How do you feed 30 cats? I work two jobs, one 40 hours a week and the other 20 hours.... and I would not be able to afford paying for shots, proper food, toys, and kitty litter for 30 cats. I barely want to buy the things my one cat needs.

Second of all, is she wont work and refuses to let you work, she's crazy. Are you living off the governement? Is she? You cannot do that and neither can she, especially when she is fully able and so are you. TELL HER THIS.

If you are not happy, leave. Explain to her as to why...

first that's a freaking butt-load of cats!
second talk to her about how you feel about every thing. The cats, the lack on her part to help you clean when they are hers to start off with and then the job issue. You need to talk to her about your own personal identity and independence of having a job this should help the relationship. Best of luck, oh and the cat get a dog LOL, no just kidding this wouldn't help.