Offistart - Virtual Offices, Office Space, Business Support Services
*Home>>>Meeting Room

What should I say...?


ok, so my and my best friend are kinda having issues with quite a good friend of ours. Shes been forcing herself into a 3 with us for a couple of months and at lunch, she always expects us to meet her in oour form room and when we go out, say to the canteen or just for a walk around the school,she demands to know where we've been.We cant even talk about anything anymore without her interrupting and we dont really feel as comfortable discussing personal problems with her. We really want to stay friends with her, but she is driving us crazy, so we want to say something politely. The thing is, we think that she thinks we are her best friends, and is always trying to make a 3. And two's company, three's a crowd. What should we say to her so she understands how we feel, without wanting to be mean? because she is still my friend, and i want it to stay that way.

It seems like she just wants to have friends, and obviously really likes you two. I do understand how annoying it can be though.

I think you need to put yourself in her shoes. If you were in her position, what would you want someone to say to you? I think you just need to sit down and let her know how you're feeling.

A good idea would be for only one of you to speak to her - if it's both of you together then she will feel intimidated and feel as if you are ganging up on her, however if it's just one person talking to her nicely then she might understand more.

Let her know that you do want to stay friends with her, but that sometimes you want some time alone just the two of you. Make sure she knows that you're not falling out with her, and make sure you don't 'blame' her for anything.

Hope everything gets sorted out :)

Find her a guy or chick (depending on how she swings) that she can date and hang with. maybe double date a couple times and then suddenly she will not want to hang with you guys, she will want to be alone with her squeeze.

Are yall in high school still. It sounds like this girl is on a power trip. Maybe you should just tell her that you do not like the way she is acting. She sounds like a DRAMA QUEEN as well. You may be in for a drama ride!

Tags
  Meeting Room   Meeting Space   Conference Room   Offices to Lease   Rent Offices   Business Centers   Service Offices
Related information
  • My Question: Do you agree with me?

    I think peggy is an insecure idiot. but i agree, with what you said.

    ...
  • Should I meet this person from an ad?

    no, it's too risky

    ...
  • When staying at a crap hotel like the one my company put me up in when I interviewed, how much do you tip the?

    I just thought of a great product. Travel size Raid.

    ...
  • I have fallen in love with someone online?

    Well i would start off by owning up to the cover up. You need to come clean and tell him the truth. Honest is the best answer really. After you confess if he doesn't seem interested anymore i...

  • Str8/Bi its confusing?

    ASK.....ITS BETTER TO ASK THEN TO...ASSUME...BUT I UNDERSTAND U BEING SCARED THEN JUST.....HINT AND TRY TO GET IT OUT OF HIM

    ...
  • I have been imagining thangs are (demons) are right in front of me walking to me seriously !?

    You want it that way. Careful what you wish for. All you have to do is tell yourself that it's not there and believe it and they will go away. If your serious you can go to any hospital and...

  • Talking to this guy I just met?

    its ok but dont do it again...hahah try to play a lil hard to get...jsut a lil cuz he does not reli know u yet so he might think your not interested......but yeah...just live on!

    ...
  • How can tell if a man is marry and if he is in love with you (if he is not marry) and want to marry you?

    He's married and playing you.

    ...
  •  

    Categories--Copyright/IP Policy--Contact Webmaster