Help with my gay son.?

Ok my son is a 10th grader and I love him to death!
He was telling me that he had a girl friend!
At this time I didnt know he was gay.
So then I said oh thats cool bring her over.He said fine and he said dont be surprised.
And I said ok.
The next day he comes to my room and says come down and meet my girlfriend and when I get down there its a guy!
I was like OMG in my head but then I just accepted it!
His "girl friend" left and I talked to him and asked him why did you say that you had a girlfriend.
And he said that he was the man in the relationship.
And he walked away and asked to talk about this tomorrow.
How do I deal with this?
What should I ask him?
How could I make him feel like Im not agains him?

Please some one help.

Don't beat yourself up. Be open in energy. They way you are feeling has to do with you. Let him come to you if he has questions, if you do this he will embrace you.

he is your son your flesh and blood and don`t forget that listen i know you must feel a little taken back but you must in your own time come to terms with the fact he is gay and nothing can change that it is agood sign when you say you love him to bits he doesn`t need approval he needs to know you are there for him and that you still love him as much as ever let him know you were a bit shocked in a nice way but also let him know you stand by him and are there for him and respect how he feels he aint no different he is still the same son you reared up he needs your support not rejection be happy for him and within time you will get used to it

I agree with poster number one. "The Man in the relationship" Very funny stuff.. On a serious note though, you sound like a great parent!!! He is lucky to have you in his life..It wasn't very nice to confuse you with the whole "Girlfriend" thing though..I also gotta give kudos to your son to be so brave! You said you had no idea about him being gay and he just came out to you like it was no big deal. (Which it should'nt be by the way) I just know that most of us have dealt with coming out in a more intimate setting. Like one on one, or telling the parents together.. Either way, Just talk to him, continue to show love and support and one day you will laugh about the whole thing. Good luck and keep being a great parent!!