I really need advice..i posted a few mins ago but got no answers?

i met a guy through my bestfriend. they work together and she has known him a long time. he came over a few days ago to hangout with me, her and her boyfriend. we were all drinking and he ended up stayin the night. although he could have slept on the couch, he asked to sleep in my room. this was the 2nd time i had met him but i have a huge crush on him so i said yes. we clicked so well and ended up talkin half the night. we were very touchy feely but never kissed. i asked him the next morning if he would wanna go with us on a weekend get away for my bday and he agreed. i like this guy a lot and we all ( me, my roomie, her bf, and the guy i like) get along great. my roomie says hes not a player and that he does like me but it bothers me that he didnt kiss me. i know he just got out of a long term relationship so im hoping that hes just wanting to take it slow. hes coming over again tomorrow to hangout. if he didnt like me i dont think hed agree to go on the trip. what do u think?

ok more than touchy feely lol we had sex

well, it sounds like this guy might be really nice, the fact that after drinking and have the obvious opportunity to "go all the way" he chose not to and to talk to you, ya know most guys would not do that, i would absolutely take the time to get to know him more and to hang out, the fact that he did not kiss you does go to show that he is probably not a player. sounds like you might have possibly found a good person :)
Good Luck!

Well I think I led a guy on to think like you did, that maybe I didn't like him. But I did. There were 2 reasons I didn't kiss him & wasn't very affectionate:

1-I had just gotten out of a relationship 3 months prior and I had gotten very hurt. I wanted to move really slow & to be honest I was a little numb as far as having feeling for anyone. I was still not completely over what had happened.

2-LIke I said, I was not completely over what had happened, but I was still trying to move on and I knew he was a nice guy. But at times when I tried to kiss him, I thought about my X and it made me really sad. So again, I took a step back because I was not very ready, plus I didn't want to do that to the new guy.

Conclusion: turns out now I do like the guy and we've moved forward. I have kissed him and I'm more affectionate. It took me some time to come around but I did. He was very patient and understanding.
It also helped that he was VERY respectful and not a player, which seems like your guy's case as well.

So...I think in your case is because he's taking it slow because it's his breakup is still too fresh or because he's just very respectful and didn't want to cross boundaries. It could also be a combo of both.
Just take your time and take it slow. It will all be ok :)

just talk to him some more.
i'm in the same situation.
he will fall in love with you if he knows the real you.