Mother-in-law troubles. Can you believe she did this!?

So my fianc茅 and I stopped by his family's house because he has some cousins visiting...while we were leaving and saying goodbye he turned into another room to say bye to his dad. His mother, in front of people I had just met, without asking, lifted up my sweater and shirt exposing my bare stomach and proceeded to put her face on my stomach! I was soo mad x( I didn't want to embarrass my fianc茅 so I tried to play it off and just leave quickly, but as soon as we were outside I told my fianc茅 how angry I was, he said sorry and that if he would have seen he would have said something...but that wasn't really the point...I mean, who does that?? My own mother wouldn't even do that, not even my fianc茅, he would ask before just lifting my clothes off. What if I was really self-conscious about my stomach or something...erg...it makes me soo mad. Has something like this ever happened to anyone? My fianc茅 said he would talk to her, but I don't even think it's worth it but I said if she did

it again to say something and that he wasn't allowed to leave my side when were over there. It's also hard because she doesn't speak very good English...I am trying so hard to be nice for my fianc茅, he knows I don't particularly like his family, but I am always polite to them...but my patience is running thin, this put me over the edge! All I know is that I am not leaving my son at their dirty house (dog pee on the floors, gross!) and if she tries to take my son from my arms or try to DE-ROBE me again, I am going to lose it!

this would anger me too because it's an invasion of privacy... as she doesnt speak english very well, maybe it's a cultural thing with her and your fiance should speak with her to let her know that it was inappropriate.

I dont like my bf's family much either and im two seconds from exploding on them, but they are just plain rude and brash people. I think i could accept having my shirt lifted by someone not aware of customs more so than my ghetto fabulous bf's mother.

Here's an example, at my baby shower, my mom invited his family of course. I decided to name my son Kingston. His mother hates the name and walks up to the cake that my mom had made and says "I don't know why she put that ugly *** name on that cake."

Here's another example, when we went out to dinner for my bf's sister's birthday, I was starting to get bigger and of course, having large breasts all ready, my breasts were getting even larger. His mom and aunt come over to me and are like "Damn girl, you think you could hide those things?" It was so embarrassing. It wasnt even like they were exposed. I can't stand them. Honestly, if my bf's mom had done what your fiance's mom did, I probably would have smacked the hell out of her or yanked my shirt from her and said excuse me really loud. But that's cause of how my bf's mom is. I'm not leaving my son with her either.

I feel you

there is no reason to get mad or be embarassed about it.

She's foreign, she's excited about the baby & she was just showing love for both of you

if she had exposed your breasts - then you'd have a good reason to be pissed, but no one blinks an eye at a pregnant belly.

It could be worse - your MIL could hate you =)

That is strange and i would freak out too!!!

But you never know she probably though why did i do that!! i know iv done things before without thinking and after thought oh my god im such a tit!!

but still thats strange, im sooo funny about people touching myu tummy i would have probably slapped her! not on purpose but as a reaction!!!